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She/her. Sex worker, survivor, autistic, adopted. Historian and writer. Profile ID: Photo of path between trees and flowers & text reading, "We are the wayside / community is a journey." Header ID: "Ever-masker" over collage of words like "ever-reader,"

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Iran's government is more hardline, its people are poorer and more isolated, the region's on fire, and the global economy feels like its about to go into shock

If you want to know why people wanted to avoid war with Iran for so long, you're finding out in real time

09.03.2026 02:24 πŸ‘ 4814 πŸ” 922 πŸ’¬ 76 πŸ“Œ 30

???

09.03.2026 03:20 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Also while I was fighting despair by sorting laundry and watering plants I want to say Happy International Women's Day to the women and especially the women who are in the closet about that

It's your day! Even if it's a secret

08.03.2026 23:57 πŸ‘ 477 πŸ” 89 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

Even if you are 100% convinced that Democracy is already dead and our votes won't count...
PLEASE VOTE ANYWAY!
I'm begging everyone. There is a critical mass of voter turnout that will be too big to fix.
Please vote, no matter how bleak it seems.

08.03.2026 01:07 πŸ‘ 8774 πŸ” 2715 πŸ’¬ 366 πŸ“Œ 141

A friend tells me a 2-bedroom apartment they looked at in Cambridge, MA is 6800/month. I’m sure to move would also require first, last, and security ($20,400). That doesn’t cover moving costs.

Who is affording this? Who can afford this?

08.03.2026 20:43 πŸ‘ 337 πŸ” 63 πŸ’¬ 22 πŸ“Œ 9

β€’ Veterans who were discharged from the uniformed services due to sexual orientation or gender identity/expression.
- They do not need to live in Washington.
- They do not need to enter school within a certain amount of time after separating from the military.
- They maintain resident student status as long as they stay continuously enrolled.
- Does not apply to veterans who have a dishonorable discharge from the uniformed services.

β€’ Veterans who were discharged from the uniformed services due to sexual orientation or gender identity/expression. - They do not need to live in Washington. - They do not need to enter school within a certain amount of time after separating from the military. - They maintain resident student status as long as they stay continuously enrolled. - Does not apply to veterans who have a dishonorable discharge from the uniformed services.

TIL that military service members who were discharged for their sexual orientation or gender identity qualify for in-state tuition rates in Washington regardless of their residency!

wsac.wa.gov/student-resi...

08.03.2026 20:00 πŸ‘ 521 πŸ” 168 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 2
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Parents: Don't Hide Your Children's Autism Diagnosis From Them β€” THINKING PERSON'S GUIDE TO AUTISM since I didn’t know about my autism diagnosis, I just assumed there was something wrong with me and that I deserved what I got.

Parents, pls tell your autistic kids they are autistic: "You may think that an autistic child won’t notice they are different than their non-autistic peers; I have not met one autistic person (me included) who hasn’t noticed their difference early in life."

thinkingautismguide.com/2017/02/pare...

08.03.2026 03:07 πŸ‘ 259 πŸ” 77 πŸ’¬ 18 πŸ“Œ 19

How many of the people screaming about how anti-vaccination parents should be tarred and feathered mask during surges in COVID? Or when they’re around vulnerable people?
Asking as someone whose mother passed away of Covid complications likely from infections contracted by unmasked visitors.

08.03.2026 15:03 πŸ‘ 50 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

It's interesting how she starts by saying the news was on. She says she understands / doesn't blame them, but she made it part of her story of being uncomfortable. Clearly she knows the shitty things happening on the news are tied to her vote. She was uncomfortable before they even asked her.

08.03.2026 19:33 πŸ‘ 95 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

Yikes

08.03.2026 19:25 πŸ‘ 69 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

what clarification?

08.03.2026 19:20 πŸ‘ 25 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

idk I’ve seen a bajillion kids movies where the kids parents die & let me tell you, having a convo with my kid about how anyone can die at any time & it doesn’t matter if they’re someone’s mom or dad is way harder than having a convo about how sometimes someone has two dads or whatever. And yet

08.03.2026 04:22 πŸ‘ 5014 πŸ” 1329 πŸ’¬ 48 πŸ“Œ 18
Graphic for March 8th International Women’s Day. The Long Covid SOS logo appears at the top in awareness day colours. Beneath it, β€œMarch 8th International Women’s Day” in teal and underneath in a lighter teal shade β€œWomen living with Long Covid and other invisible illnesses deserve to be heard, believed and supported” 
β€œNo more gaslighting” in orange italics. 
At the bottom the image shows layered silhouettes of diverse women in profile, in different colours and hairstyles to represent solidarity and shared experience. A faint lifering motif from the Long Covid SOS logo forms the background. And at the bottom left text reads β€œ#IWD2026”

Graphic for March 8th International Women’s Day. The Long Covid SOS logo appears at the top in awareness day colours. Beneath it, β€œMarch 8th International Women’s Day” in teal and underneath in a lighter teal shade β€œWomen living with Long Covid and other invisible illnesses deserve to be heard, believed and supported” β€œNo more gaslighting” in orange italics. At the bottom the image shows layered silhouettes of diverse women in profile, in different colours and hairstyles to represent solidarity and shared experience. A faint lifering motif from the Long Covid SOS logo forms the background. And at the bottom left text reads β€œ#IWD2026”

Women are too often dismissed when it comes to their health told it’s β€œanxiety”, β€œyour age” or β€œall tests are normal”

#LongCovid is following a pattern many women already know. Women living with Long Covid deserve to be heard, believed and supported.

#IWD2026 #NoMoreGaslighting

08.03.2026 10:57 πŸ‘ 75 πŸ” 46 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 2
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Alabama set to execute man who did not kill anyone Unless Alabama Gov. Kay Ivey intervenes, Charles β€œSonny” Burton, 75, will be executed Thursday. He is among thousands in America convicted under a controversial felony murder law.

Sonny Burton is set to be executed by the state of Alabama on Thursday. There is a direct line between a government that murders its own citizens and the devaluing of life abroad. The sin has always started at home.

08.03.2026 12:42 πŸ‘ 1293 πŸ” 627 πŸ’¬ 14 πŸ“Œ 31
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Renee Good was shot in the head, autopsy commissioned by her family finds Renee Good was shot three times and grazed a fourth time during the Jan. 7 encounter with an ICE officer, according to findings released by her family's attorneys.

1/The failure to investigate Renee Good’s death at all is ongoing scandal. The independent autopsy suggests that Renee Good was still alive after the first shot; it was the third shot that killed her, www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news....

08.03.2026 12:48 πŸ‘ 1536 πŸ” 607 πŸ’¬ 15 πŸ“Œ 13
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Uploading Pirated Books via BitTorrent Qualifies as Fair Use, Meta Argues * TorrentFreak In an ongoing lawsuit, Meta now argues that uploading pirated books to strangers via BitTorrent qualifies as fair use.

In 2013 Aaron Swartz committed suicide for facing 35 years in prison for mass downloading scientific articles.

13 years later, Meta is almost getting away with an infraction orders of magnitude larger.

The law didn't change.

torrentfreak.com/uploading-pi...

07.03.2026 20:03 πŸ‘ 1509 πŸ” 611 πŸ’¬ 11 πŸ“Œ 20
Screen shot of Blue Sky Post by the account Cats of Yore, quoting an anonymous message. The quoted message reads, "The participation trophy generation needs to grow a fucking backbone. The world doesn't cater to you. I don't owe you shit.
There is zero reason I should worsen my own health because of your virtue signaling. Don't like no alt text? Add some and stfu.." Cats of Yore's Quote-Post reads, "I was tagged into an exchange where a 'resistance' account had this to say to someone politely asking them to add ALT text to their images. Framing accessibility like people with disabilities are merely a bunch of whiny, entitled pussies is certainly a... choice.." [Frowning Emoji.]

Screen shot of Blue Sky Post by the account Cats of Yore, quoting an anonymous message. The quoted message reads, "The participation trophy generation needs to grow a fucking backbone. The world doesn't cater to you. I don't owe you shit. There is zero reason I should worsen my own health because of your virtue signaling. Don't like no alt text? Add some and stfu.." Cats of Yore's Quote-Post reads, "I was tagged into an exchange where a 'resistance' account had this to say to someone politely asking them to add ALT text to their images. Framing accessibility like people with disabilities are merely a bunch of whiny, entitled pussies is certainly a... choice.." [Frowning Emoji.]

Using "pussies" as shorthand for "weakling" is also a fucking choice

08.03.2026 06:10 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Judge orders feds to return ICE detainees' missing property within 30 days A judge ordered the Department of Homeland Security and Minnesota U.S. Attorney Daniel Rosen to either return lost property to released detainees unlawfully arrested during Operation Metro Surge or pr...

A federal judge ordered the Department of Homeland Security to return or replace property taken from unlawfully arrested ICE detainees and released without their belongings, giving the government 30 days to comply.

07.03.2026 21:42 πŸ‘ 1216 πŸ” 536 πŸ’¬ 69 πŸ“Œ 25

I wonder how many people realize this is the norm.

β€œHouseholds containing an adult w/a work-disability require, on average…an additional $17,690/year…to obtain the same standard of living as a comparable household w/o a member w/a disability.”

www.nationaldisabilityinstitute.org/reports/extr...

07.03.2026 22:06 πŸ‘ 46 πŸ” 21 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Do younger people know about the huge effort that was put into decreasing the % of smokers. Education campaigns in print, on TV, in schools, new restrictions/enforcement, labeling, a soupΓ§on of public shaming, changes in how smoking was depicted, etc. Might guide us in anti-anti-vax efforts.

08.03.2026 01:45 πŸ‘ 474 πŸ” 80 πŸ’¬ 20 πŸ“Œ 4

(Polio. It's polio)

07.03.2026 20:17 πŸ‘ 727 πŸ” 321 πŸ’¬ 40 πŸ“Œ 17
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At Largest ICE Detention Camp, Staff Bet on Detainee Suicides, AP Reports Camp East Montana has received several 911 calls in the span of five months about immigrants trying to harm themselves.

Staff at the nation’s largest Immigration and Customs Enforcement detention facility have placed bets on which detainee will be the next to die by suicide, according to new reporting from the Associated Press based on 911 calls and detainee accounts.

07.03.2026 21:00 πŸ‘ 9236 πŸ” 6025 πŸ’¬ 604 πŸ“Œ 1531

about preserving life.

07.03.2026 20:42 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

always be pro-life in my book, regardless of when life begins, because terminating pregnancy is the lowest threshold of force necessary to remove the risk that pregnancy poses to every pregnant person's life. It doesn't require dehumanization because it's not about punishing evil-doers. It's just

07.03.2026 20:42 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

To me the difference is that self-defense isn't about hurting anyone, it's about removing an active threat to life. It's self-limiting in that it can only sanction the degree of force necessary to remove the risk. If any other paths to security exist, war can't be called defensive. But abortion will

07.03.2026 20:42 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

"It is a quick and easy slide from you did something horrible to you’re not a real person to the world would be better without you in it."

07.03.2026 20:18 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

There’s an Indian journalist in Israel right now reporting in Hindi about how bomb shelters in Israel will allow even the pets of Jews in but will not open its doors to the Indian workers our shithole government sent in droves to make up for genocided Palestinian labor. Apartheid regime.

07.03.2026 06:38 πŸ‘ 896 πŸ” 391 πŸ’¬ 15 πŸ“Œ 22
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Spanish PM Pedro SΓ‘nchez:

You may have heard that Spain is alone. They’re the same people who said that when we recognized the State of Palestine, and then others followed.

We are not alone β€” we are the first. Those who will end up alone are the ones defending the indefensible.

07.03.2026 11:59 πŸ‘ 1176 πŸ” 350 πŸ’¬ 16 πŸ“Œ 43
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Ruben Ray Martinez: Footage shows US citizen shot by ICE agent in Texas traffic stop The Department of Homeland Security did not disclose Martinez was shot by one of its agents until almost a year later.

Newly released footage shows an ICE agent killing Rubin Ray Martinez, 23, in his car in Texas.

"He was shot at point-blank range through his side window by an ICE agent who was in no danger."
www.bbc.com/news/article...

07.03.2026 14:18 πŸ‘ 6088 πŸ” 3841 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 263

Just listening to abc radio news.

Apparently the algorithm determining disability support is not working. It’s denying high level support to people that can’t breathe without assistance.

Wot. A. Surprise.

#Robodebt

06.03.2026 20:35 πŸ‘ 72 πŸ” 20 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 4