Zan Rubio (they/them)

You have!! I love you and your spirit 💜

Still doesn’t make it easy though, I’m sorry

Yes, no latch has proven strong enough for mine either 🫂 But I think sometimes we build dams to create lakes when there should be rivers to carry things away from us. I’ve been a lurker in the fandom for a long time as I’ve been going through a lot of shit but your account has brought me joy 🫂

Oh my godsssss, can I relate to this 🫂

They won't start with banning birth control. First they'll lie about it. Then dictate who can prescribe it, use it, fund it, in what forms, and for how long. Suddenly, your doctor won't call you back. I know this is what they'll do because it's what they're doing to transgender healthcare right now.

Whenever I see a politician like Gavin Newsom complain about "pronouns," I want to give a grammar lesson in reflexive pronouns:

Go fuck yourself.

Wow.

I do exactly as Sylvia Plath taught me.

“I took a deep breath and listened to the old brag of my heart. I am, I am, I am.”

I slow down, I breathe deep, I listen to my heart, and I softly say “I am, I am, I am.”

It helps. After all this time, it still helps.

…now I miss crying in the walk in freezer lol! Perfect place to lose it. I still have dreams about being triple sat too, and bringing tables endless sides of ranch 😂 the trauma is real

Omg I still automatically say “behind” when I’m walking behind someone carrying something, 15 years later

The GOP has offered nothing this century except for catastrophic wars. No healthcare plan; no re-industrialization. Now they're losing their only issue, immigration, as people see the violence and havoc that comes with mass deportations.

❤️

Macaulay Culkin on Instagram. 😢

How Jacob Wysocki accidentally created the internet’s favorite affirmation YOU ARE A REGULAR GUY

YOU ARE A REGULAR GUY

Text from a friend of mine: “[Other friend] was walking her dogs a block from her house in Silverlake and ice rolled up and took two gardeners They are going up in the hills and nabbing people. Warn your neighbors!”

“Two unmarked cars and another car with a fake business logo on it. She screamed shame on you and one of the masked demons said, ‘thank you’”

LOS ANGELES: ICE is prowling Silverlake & the hills

Two hummingbirds sit on a feeder

Hummingbirds from my mom’s backyard! Keep doing what I assume could be a game changer bit we’ll see next year?

Oops All Himbos is something uniquely fun. It’s so special. It’s more than just beefy dudes, it’s more than just comedy, it has heart. It is pure joy.
Thanks for letting me play along @whoisjayfoster.com
Thanks @9thlevelgames.bsky.social for putting up with us 😂 💖

Hey babes, your worthiness is not tied to your productivity. You are worthy and deserving even when you’re taking a break.

An oversight commission is urging the police in Long Beach, California to stop arresting the VICTIMS in domestic violence cases

Going through one of those tough times where I know it’s the right move but damn is it scary.

Simply stunning 🖤

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My recurring nightmare is what gen ai can do to trans people.

Like, the terror of them using it to create their own justification is immense.

Boston Children’s Fights Back For Trans Kids: Judge Quashes Trump Subpoena Around 2,000 BCH employees and untold numbers of patients were targeted by the DOJ. A judge just told them, “No.”

1. Trump threatened every hospital that provides gender affirming care to transgender youth.

Many complied and shut down their programs.

Boston Children's Hospital didn't. They fought back and kept providing care.

And now, they just beat Trump in court.

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Ugh yessssss so happy for you!!!

One more sleep until I get to see my girlfriend 🖤😭

I swear pretty often and for so long I heard people say "people who swear aren't being creative and should use other words," but let me tell you: I'm a professional writer. I have access to all of the words, I LOVE finding the perfect word! And a lot of times, the perfect word is fuck.

Gavin Newsom is anti-trans and I will never, ever vote for him.

More and more people reporting today that Stripe - the payment processor that Itch said were putting the most pressure on them - now have staff actively confirming that yes, they are censoring LGBT content, adult or otherwise. That this is official company policy.

This seems kinda significant.

Wtf is wrong with people for real