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JAVI πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆβœŠπŸΎ 🌿 Queer | Polyam | Nonbinary | AuDHD 🧘 Yoga Therapy for Self-Discovery, Relationships & Emotional Balance πŸ’‘ Healing Through Philosophy & Practice πŸ“ @holisticallywholeyoga

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If a thought arises that says, β€˜I’m not good enough,’

β†’ Pause.

β†’ Observe.

β†’ Ask: β€˜Is this true? Or is this a pattern?’ πŸ€”

You are the awareness behind the thought, not the thought itself. Treat yourself accordingly. 😌🀌🏾

08.03.2025 11:26 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yoga teaches that we are not our thoughtsβ€”we are the observer of them. πŸ‘€

But if that’s true, why do we let self-judgment run the show? Why do we believe every mean thing our inner voice tells us? πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈ

08.03.2025 11:26 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

β€œKnow who you are… if you don’t, you risk becoming what you don’t want to be”
-Nikki Giovanni πŸ™πŸ½

Self Discovery & Self Awareness are πŸ”‘

28.02.2025 09:18 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Six Months Alcohol-Free Choosing Myself on the Healing Journey

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25.02.2025 17:03 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

If you crave deep conversations about yoga, emotional regulation, and how relationships (even non-traditional ones) can be a path to self-discovery, you should be following me.

12.02.2025 11:38 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Solo Polyamory & Self-Relationship What Yoga Teaches Us About Autonomy & Love

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11.02.2025 13:19 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

REMEMBER the more grounded you feel in your body, the less the world’s chaos shakes you. πŸ™πŸ½ πŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ

11.02.2025 12:06 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Hello

11.02.2025 12:06 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Yoga Therapy & Emotional Balance: The Foundation for Healthy Relationships (For monogamous, non-monogamous, & self-relationships alike)

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06.02.2025 14:19 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Oh gawsh! πŸ₯° I’m so happy you are enjoying the series!! More to come!!

03.02.2025 01:49 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Stop blaming yourself for struggling with emotions. Start working with your nervous system instead.

02.02.2025 20:11 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

❓ Have you ever struggled with boundary guilt? What helped you move through it? ⬇️

31.01.2025 04:57 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

βœ”οΈ Today, practice saying:
β€’ β€œI need more time to process before answering.”
β€’ β€œI’m not comfortable with that.”
β€’ β€œThat doesn’t work for me.”

Your boundaries deserve space. So do you.

31.01.2025 04:56 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ’‘ Boundaries aren’t about shutting people out. They’re about teaching people how to love you better. If someone respects you, they’ll want to know your needs.

31.01.2025 04:56 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ’œ For years, I thought setting boundaries meant pushing people away. I wanted to be open, easygoing, low maintenanceβ€”so I let people cross lines I didn’t even know I had.

31.01.2025 04:55 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

If setting boundaries makes you feel guilty, read this. 🧡

31.01.2025 04:55 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

What’s one thing you wish more people understood about Polyamory? πŸ€” πŸ”½

30.01.2025 21:43 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ’¬ Repeat this with me & let me knowβ€”what part of yourself are you embracing today?

#MorningAffirmation #SelfDiscovery #YogaTherapy #QueerHealing

30.01.2025 16:42 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ”Ή Reflection:
Before seeking validation from others, I honor my truth. I allow myself to evolve, change, and show up as the fullest version of me, without apology.

30.01.2025 16:42 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

🌞 Morning Affirmation:
β€œI am worthy of being fully seen and understoodβ€”by myself first.”

30.01.2025 16:42 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Healing isn’t becoming a different person. It’s returning to yourself.

30.01.2025 16:24 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

5/ Polyamory isn’t just about who you loveβ€”it’s about how you love, starting with yourself. And yoga therapy? It’s the practice that helps you show up fully, in every relationship.

30.01.2025 16:23 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

4/ Your nervous system? It needs grounding for both. Your breath? It’s the bridge between chaos and calm. Your body? It holds wisdom beyond words.

30.01.2025 16:23 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

3/ Both require emotional balance, radical honesty, and a willingness to sit with discomfortβ€”whether it’s in a difficult conversation or a deep hip opener.

30.01.2025 16:23 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

2/πŸ§˜β€β™‚οΈ In yoga, we practice non-attachment (aparigraha), presence (dharana), and self-study (svadhyaya).
πŸ’œ In polyamory, we navigate jealousy, communicate our needs, and cultivate trust.

30.01.2025 16:22 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

1/ Think polyamory is just about multiple partners? Think again. It’s about self-awareness, emotional regulation, and deep connectionβ€”just like yoga therapy 🀯 🧡

30.01.2025 16:22 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1