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Modern Polyamory with Jan Dominy

@modernpolyamory

Relationship Researcher, Student, Polyamorous, bisexual, creative, wifey and girlfriend, Taurus, Pagan, Burning Man enthusiast, liberal, fairy princess

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10.03.2025 07:20 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Friends With Benefits, Compersion v Jealousy, and The Gravy Boat
Friends With Benefits, Compersion v Jealousy, and The Gravy Boat YouTube video by Modern Polyamory

Check out the podcast video or listen wherever you get your podcasts! #polyamaory
youtu.be/V3f_rWjR74c?...

10.03.2025 07:18 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Smart. I should bring that up to my boyfriend. He needs to do that.

11.02.2025 03:45 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Sure, you’re doing the work, an ethical non-monogamy player, dismantling hierarchy in your relationships, communicating, dividing your time equitably. But what about your self care time? How do you take time for just you when juggling life and love in polyamory? #polyamory #polyam #relationships

07.02.2025 16:13 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 1

Many people assume monogamy is natural, but history and anthropology say otherwise. Humans have practiced all kinds of relationship styles forever. What’s your take? #polyamory #polyam #relationships

02.02.2025 18:05 πŸ‘ 11 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 0

We’re still doing DEI over here: How do aspects of your identity (e.g., race, gender, sexuality, socioeconomic status) influence your experience of polyamory? #polyamory #polyam #ethicalnonmonogamy

01.02.2025 16:21 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

How has being polyamorous shaped your personal growth and self-awareness? #polyamory #polyam #ethicalnonmonogamy

31.01.2025 19:03 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

β€œI Could Never Do That” πŸ’”
The classic monogamous reaction! But hey, polyamory isn’t about forcing anyoneβ€”it’s just one way of loving. How do you respond when someone says this? #polyamory #nonmonogamy

31.01.2025 03:36 πŸ‘ 8 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Polyamory isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. What matters is that we find the relationships that bring us joy, respect, and understanding. No one way to loveβ€”just your way. πŸ’– #polyam #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy

29.01.2025 15:02 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Each of your relationships in polyamory are precious, and you likely will get certain things from each one. Cherish each relationship for the unique joy they bring! #polyamory #polyam #nonmonogamy

26.01.2025 15:22 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Updates about the Modern Polyamory podcast β€œHey Sis” coming to Spotify in March! Check the other socials for more! #polyam #polyamory #modernpolyamory

24.01.2025 18:07 πŸ‘ 8 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

A lot of polyam people are actually demisexual, meaning they don’t have sex without a connection. Most of us are simply emotionally intelligent lovers who are forming communities with other adults who think like us. #polyamthreads #polyamory

22.01.2025 05:24 πŸ‘ 11 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Join the Modern Polyamory Discord Server! Check out the Modern Polyamory community on Discord - hang out with 45 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

So the discord server is really popping off! If you wanna join a growing group of silly sexy nerdy polyamorous friends all are welcome! discord.gg/gaXQKXs3 #polyamthreads #polyamory

20.01.2025 16:51 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Jealousy is natural, but polyamory teaches us to handle it with care. Communicate and practice compersion πŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’š #polyamthreads #polyamory

20.01.2025 03:03 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Me: I'm into polyarmory 
Her: You mean polyamory right?
Me: *with multiple swords* what?

Me: I'm into polyarmory Her: You mean polyamory right? Me: *with multiple swords* what?

Did @ohhaimar.bsky.social write this?

19.01.2025 18:11 πŸ‘ 10 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Polyamory is choosing love in all its formsβ€”authentic and free. 🌈 #polyamory #polyamthreads

19.01.2025 21:36 πŸ‘ 8 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

β€œI don’t want to share my wife.” He said to me and I struggled to hide my disappointment. I was disappointed because he had just reduced my best friend to an ice cream sundae.
You don’t β€œshare” your partner in polyamory. Your partner is an entire whole autonomous person. #polyamory

19.01.2025 15:02 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Losing my 4K plus followers on TikTok kinda blows. That’s it…that’s the whole post. #tiktok

19.01.2025 07:45 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Join the Modern Polyamory Discord Server! Check out the Modern Polyamory community on Discord - hang out with 12 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

Just getting this Modern Polyamory discord server going! Please join us and pardon our stardust ✨ #polyamory #polyam
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19.01.2025 00:30 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Modern Polyamory Discover the best polyamory resources for navigating love and life in polyamory, open relationships and non-monogamy one story at a time.

Communication, honesty, and respect are key in polyamorous relationships, as everyone involved needs to feel safe, heard, and valued. Polyamory isn’t for everyone, but for those who choose it, it offers a different way of thinking about love and connection.
#polyamory
Www.modernpolyamory.com

18.01.2025 16:17 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I love that. Fortunately I don’t have to take on a caretaker role for him so far. He’s still good to care for himself but he won’t always be able to.

16.01.2025 19:41 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Exactly! My husband is disabled and we are intimate all the time. It’s mostly not about sex.

16.01.2025 18:27 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Yesssssss!

16.01.2025 18:26 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Hey guys! Surprise! You may have seen me and been talking to me under the name wickedsparklefae or JanWicked but things have been changing rapidly for me and I’m writing a book and creating a podcast. Once I have a set launch for everything you’ll be the first to know!
#polyamory

16.01.2025 18:25 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Consensual Non-Monogamy and Increased Relationship Satisfaction and Happiness
Consensual Non-Monogamy and Increased Relationship Satisfaction and Happiness YouTube video by Janet Dominy

youtu.be/731P3OfJen4?...

If you were interested in what I talked about.

15.01.2025 22:54 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yes Sociology is my minor and I didn’t declare this until I started at UNR. I’ve already finished all my psychology requirements. We have a lot of interesting sociology topics to choose from. Did you go on to study psychology in graduate school?

15.01.2025 20:15 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It’s a wintermester class called Sociology of Happiness. Anytime I can slip in a term paper or presentation around Non-Monogamy I do it. I have been researching relationship science for a long time. I just had a big academic pothole I had to navigate. I graduate in December of this year.

15.01.2025 19:58 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

So interesting! NRE is like my drug of choice and I could 100% wreck my whole life. I keep it together but it’s such a rush. I really like it. I can totally understand how someone might find it overwhelming though.

15.01.2025 18:51 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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About to go in on this presentation about Consensual Non-Monogamy and Happiness through relationship satisfaction. I always get a little nervous doing assignments using Non-Monogamy as a topic but so far it’s been well received in the academic world. #polyamory

15.01.2025 18:46 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Heyyyyyy

15.01.2025 05:07 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0