40 Jahre lang wurde der Feministische Juristinnentag vom Bund gefördert - dieses Jahr wurde die Förderung kurz vor der Veranstaltung eingestellt. Der FJT ist eine sehr wichtige juristische Veranstaltung: viel Solidarität mit den Kolleginnen!
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Weirder Take, weil die Dudes die dafür ursächlich sind eher nicht dazu neigen ihre Pronomen anzugeben und he/him community eher nach trans/non binary masc Menschen klingt als nach cis Mackern.
all I want for feministischer Kampftag ist cis feministische accounts die feministischer Kampftag sagen und nicht nur an sich denken
Bin derzeit auf Brotjobsuche und ich sehe ja echt viel Mist in Stellenausschreibungen, aber das explizit darum gebeten wird, den "16 personalities" Test zu machen und das Ergebnis anzugeben ist abschreckender als jedes "kostenlose Getränke, Obstkorb und wöchentliche Teamevents".
Mental check-in... Meme only
In "Vena" there is a real on screen birth which is nice. Thought it was a good movie, while dealing with heavy topics.
And yeah depiction of birth in movies does rarely show the birth giving person as powerful, but rather as controlled by men (doctors) legs wide open, on the back, for consumption.
Marketing Email von Sims 4, Betreff: "Süße Skandale mit königlichem Geschmack 👑🍲😲" Die Mail beginnt mit "Koche dir ein Skandal-Süppchen."
Weiter aus der Mail, neben einem Screenshot Text: "Mach alles fürs Drama / Sorge für Drama, etwa durch verbotene Liebe oder geheime Kinder. Und erlebe dann, wie der Skandal das Leben auf den Kopf stellt!"
Also entweder jemand hat in der Marketing Abteilung von EA die aktuelle Lage überhaupt nicht im Blick, oder jemand dachte sich bissel Ragebait ist geil, oder jemand hat eine Zielgruppe im Blick, deren Mods zumindest bis vor einiger Zeit konsequent gesperrt wurden, wann immer sie bekannt wurden...
CN CSA, Epstein files
The ones who fume about alleged pedophiles all day are often not the same as the ones calling out abuse happening in their surroundings. Which also shows they need perps to be monsters and dismiss of being close to abusers at times in their lives too. So much performativity.
Alle wollen immer nur die Kinder beschützen mittels Vorratsdatenspeicherung, Chatkontrolle, Massenüberwachung, Bewegungsprofilen, Alterskontrolle, Internetsperren und so weiter, aber wenn es darum geht, denselben Kindern einen lebenswerten Planeten zu hinterlassen, hört der Schutz plötzlich auf.
CN CSA, Epstein
Quit talking online about your shock about something that happend right in front of you, if not to you, to someone close to you, as if it happened some other place and just the effects of it had spread to here.
It happened here. To you, your friends. By men you know.
19/n, n=19
CN CSA, Epstein
Go, make sure you have a community in which secrets aren't a good thing. In which talking about feelings and asking for help are the most powerful things to do.
Go, work through your shame and guilt and everything that has been put in your head.
18/n
CN CSA, Epstein
Go teach your kids to talk about things happening in their lives. Go teach your kids that you, your husband, their teachers, trainers,... can do things that aren't okay and that they are allowed to and even encouraged to talk about *everything* with other adults.
17/n
CN CSA, Epstein
They've always been good to you have they not? Why would you blame them, if you can blame others? "Come here darling, all those headlines right now are getting you confused, let's hug it out. That's right hon, let the tears come. I'm here for you."
16/n
CN CSA, Epstein
They thaught us that we are prey from the moment we were born.
Maybe you really were one of the few lucky ones managing to grow up without one of these men close to you. Maybe you just know how much it would upset them if you'd view them that way.
15/n
CN CSA, Epstein
That teacher who told you after class not to wear pants as short, it might distract the boys. The boys will be boys attitude when they were chasing you. The playboy bunnies smiling from advertisements, promising a good life if only you're attractive to old men?
14/n
CN CSA, Epstein
The uncle praising your child bearing hips back when you didn't even had your first menstrual cycle? Yeah that was odd. Your dad telling you he'll make sure any boy you bring home is worthy of his beautiful daughter when you were still playing with Legos?
13/n
CN CSA, Epstein
It was shaped by journalists reporting about CSA in a way you could distance yourself from the idea that something like that would happen around you without you noticing. Right next to the article covering the amazing beauty of abused kids (models).
12/n
CN CSA, Epstein
Your worldview and beauty standards weren't created by some distant "pedophiles", whose names are in the Epstein files. They were shaped by the men around you, who could rely on those. On media about ~attractive~ kids. Kids who ~seduce~ men.
11/n
CN CSA, Epstein
You know at least one, most likely more men who raped a child or teen. You drank and ate with them. One time, they made a weird comment, but you laughed it off. They charmed you. Must be one of the cases of rare false allegations.
10/n
CN CSA, Epstein
Let's circle back to "pedophiles". Pedophiles are always "the others". Pedophiles are weird men, not your uncle, not your teacher or trainer or dad. They don't work for the police, they're arrested by the police. No one knows one.
9/n
CN CSA, Epstein
But it usually doesn't being with a bad guy feeling. It doesn't begin with "don't tell mommy, this is our little secret". It begins with confusion and praise. It begins with planting the thought into kids heads that the men in their lives are protectors, not predators.
8/n
CN CSA, Epstein
"Your parents love you and just want the best for you" is the other half of the medal. Kids aren't taught about how their dads might groom them.
If there is someone in their life who cares enough they'll teach about good and bad gut feelings.
7/n
CN CSA, Epstein
They're your very nice neighbor with the cute kids and the friendly wife. They are the very good teachers, committed to their jobs. They teach kids about stranger danger. Thus telling them what they should be wary of and what's okay.
6/n
CN CSA, Epstein
By feeding the stranger danger narrative you're enabling CSA. Because most kids are taught about stranger danger. They believe, as most adults, in clear, visible signs. Violence, luring, being creepy. Most men who rape kids aren't.
5/n
CN CSA, Epstein
While there are instances in which this happens (every good lie needs some truth), it's not most cases of CSA. Depending on country, statistics,... 90+% of CSA cases are committed by fathers, stepdads, uncles, teachers, trainers,... men close to the child.
4/n
CN CSA, Epstein
As mentioned, it feeds into the stranger danger narrative. Into the story about "bad men" who "catch kids with candy" on the playground. Or grab them and pull them into a car.
You know these stories. "Be careful when someone wants to show you a bunny".
3/n
CN CSA, Epstein
Those aren't pedophiles, they are not attracted to minors. They are attracted to power and people they can control easily.
I do not think pedophiles who act on their attractions are any better. It's just a different thing and used as a distraction.
2/n
CN CSA, Epstein
I envy those privileged enough to just now realize how our world was shaped by disgusting men.
I refuse to call them pedophiles as most of them are not and it feeds into the stranger danger narrative which was always wrong.
1/n
And than they end up dumping their childhood trauma on their patient because they think they can relate so well... (been there, experienced that).
