trixie

i'm so sorry. grief sucks. you'll get through it, but it takes time. it's hard to focus on anything but the grief, but distraction can help. give yourself grace & lean on your supports 🫂❤️

that's November 19

movie poster highlighting the all-star cast: Gene Hackman, Ernest Borgnine, Red Buttons, Carol Linley, Roddy McDowall, Stella Stevens, Shelley Winters, Jack Albertson, Pamela Sue Martin, Arthur O'Connell, Eric Shea, and Leslie Nielsen

The Poseidon Adventure

haha same

happy birthday, Bridget 💙

this happens so often ("cisgender") that i'm more surprised by the cases where the dominant group DOESN'T freak out over a label ("heterosexual")

yeah i didn't really get Kant until somebody (Abigail Thorn) explained this facet of the categorical imperative

it mostly holds up! couple years ago we re-watched this and Leverage

i've traveled with sex toys, and usually it just gets a little joke or eyebrow waggle. "who wears the cuffs?" type stuff. i've never tried it while visibly trans tho

a man with a beard is wearing a pair of binoculars on his eyes . ALT: a man with a beard is wearing a pair of binoculars on his eyes .

The Name of the Rose (1986)

awesome! it's such a great concept, i hope it does well for you. i shared it with my local tarot group too ❤️

ooh, this sounds very interesting!
added to my wishlist ❤️

it’s rare that i see myself in my dreams at all. but recently I’ve been noticing my voice and my clothes more in dreams. and my dreams have gotten a lot more complicated when i need to pee 😅

- wanted to convert the software gig to full-time, but it was a weird cultish place where people worked 24/7 and partied all night
- wandered into a photo darkroom while looking for a bathroom

vivid dreams this morning!
- was explicitly girlmode
- was a superspy for part of the dream, and survived being shot into space by catching a falling lunar module
- took a software gig working on a smartphone interface made of coffee beans. first task was (literally) debugging it

it’s not generative, which is the “gen”
it’s an error checker, allegedly

🥰❤️

ooh like an Atari 400 or 800? i used those a bit when i was first learning to code (although i mostly learned on Commodore computers)

ooh that is a good blonde

oh no, hugs 🫂❤️

hehe i was always pretty smiley, even when i wasn’t feeling it. “cheerful” is a good mask

i was a big goofball so i never had the “saddest man alive” pics, but otherwise this is pretty accurate

forgot to mention, chemical engineer grandma also had FOURTEEN CHILDREN

birth family
mom's dad: chemical engineer
mom's mom: chemical engineer

adoptive family
mom's dad: auto worker, disabled by stroke
mom's mom: curmudgeon
dad's dad: auto worker, died young
dad's stepdad: WWII vet, chemical engineer
dad's mom: curmudgeon

a cartoon of mickey mouse in a wizard outfit Alt: Mickey Mouse, sorcerer's apprentice, leading a broom he has magically automated. surely nothing will go wrong with that.

i still remember my first fork bomb ❤️

🤦🏼‍♀️

i tried it and came to the hilariously wrong conclusion that i wasn’t queer at all. major setback, took 30 years to correct

🥰❤️

that's Baldur's Gate 3

aww the fire horses are adorable!