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I hope this doesn't come across as "I want trans people to do the work of educating me", & I can and will also do my own research, but ... as a cis ally, where can I best direct my limited energies & financial resources to help improve things for trans kids?

09.03.2026 10:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

It's just relentless. Attack after attack after attack. I'm not one to get defeatist but it feels like it's neverending.

If you're a trans kid, take heart, and reach out to your trans siblings. There's more than a few of us with hormone stashes and the means to get or make more.

09.03.2026 09:54 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

*clears throat, gets bullhorn*
buuuuulllllllllSHIT

09.03.2026 09:48 πŸ‘ 50 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0
Elizabeth Sampat
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I don't wish we could abolish gender, I just wish it were less an identity and more of a hobby. So you'd get people who are like "Oh yeah, l'm a woman when I have the time," or "I'm a man but I'm not very good at it yet" along with the CrossFit gender types who are SUPER INTO IT

Elizabeth Sampat @twoscooters Follow I don't wish we could abolish gender, I just wish it were less an identity and more of a hobby. So you'd get people who are like "Oh yeah, l'm a woman when I have the time," or "I'm a man but I'm not very good at it yet" along with the CrossFit gender types who are SUPER INTO IT

A friend just saw this in the wild and you know what? I stand by it

08.03.2026 22:30 πŸ‘ 918 πŸ” 227 πŸ’¬ 11 πŸ“Œ 17
A parent walking to school with children.

A parent walking to school with children.

Parents and carers – we need your voice! πŸ“‹

We’re gathering the views of families across the UK to understand the barriers faced when walking and wheeling to school.

Take our short survey to be entered into a Β£200 gift card draw.

Have your say πŸ‘‰ https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/parentWOW

08.03.2026 17:00 πŸ‘ 13 πŸ” 17 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

If you think Labour is not actively anti-trans: have a read of this thread.

09.03.2026 08:04 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 7 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Medical transition for trans kids is now banned for new referrals on the NHS. Trans kids in the UK can still go private or DIY (for now).

This means the new clinics that replaced GIDS are close to useless at best, conversion therapy at worst. 1/5

09.03.2026 07:55 πŸ‘ 833 πŸ” 355 πŸ’¬ 13 πŸ“Œ 15

If the way that adults behave in public endangers the lives of children & your proposed solution is that the children change their behaviour in a way that is inconvenient & poorly evidenced to help rather than that adults change their behaviour so that they do not endanger children:

What the fuck.

08.03.2026 18:22 πŸ‘ 29 πŸ” 9 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

It's really frustrating how many people, even supposed allies, even some trans people, seem willing to abandon trans kids. There's a pervasive attitude of "you're a losing cause, sorry, it sucks, but we'll be here for you when you hit 18"

08.03.2026 17:16 πŸ‘ 33 πŸ” 13 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 0
musician Gary Numan, born March 8, 1958, aged 68

musician Gary Numan, born March 8, 1958, aged 68

actor Gary Oldman, born March 21, 1958, aged 67

actor Gary Oldman, born March 21, 1958, aged 67

Happy Gary Retrograde everyone!

The next two weeks are the only two weeks out of the year when Gary Numan is older than Gary Oldman

08.03.2026 15:37 πŸ‘ 3778 πŸ” 1130 πŸ’¬ 27 πŸ“Œ 63

Something that speaks to a sudden decline in our society is the amount of people I’ve seen lately approaching stop signs and then going right through them like β€œnope, don’t believe in this anymore!”

07.03.2026 15:29 πŸ‘ 1800 πŸ” 188 πŸ’¬ 113 πŸ“Œ 107

there's so much bad in the world but there's also people who lift up and carry an elderly bat around every day so he can pretend he's flying again, and that's the part of the world I think is worth fighting for

07.03.2026 15:46 πŸ‘ 21545 πŸ” 6460 πŸ’¬ 89 πŸ“Œ 158
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100,000 Homes: Housing the homeless saves money? Giving apartments to the chronically homeless can save taxpayer dollars, advocates say

Anderson Cooper: β€œSo it's more expensive to have a chronically homeless person living on the streets than it is to actually subsidize an apartment for them?”

Answer: β€œYes, we’re paying more as taxpayers to walk past that person on the street and do nothing.” #HousingFirst #UrbanTruth

03.03.2026 03:01 πŸ‘ 1378 πŸ” 526 πŸ’¬ 24 πŸ“Œ 57

In today's least surprising news

07.03.2026 19:26 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
40 far right with union flags surrounded by cops on every side boxes into a small huddle

40 far right with union flags surrounded by cops on every side boxes into a small huddle

Bristol Patriots having a shit day out today. All 40 of them, totally boxed in by hundreds of antifascists.

Police turned them around and marched them back the way they came.

Despite using batons and horses against antifascists, people held their ground and the fascists did not pass.

07.03.2026 15:41 πŸ‘ 256 πŸ” 69 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 2

When men's workload is automated, it's genius; when women's workload is automated it's a character flaw and morally questionable.

07.03.2026 15:00 πŸ‘ 1064 πŸ” 196 πŸ’¬ 7 πŸ“Œ 12
A photo in the background of a protest with trans and rainbow flags. In the foreground a big number: 5,000 is shown... with text underneath saying "LGBTIQA+ Greens Members". The number of 5,000 is bordered with a rainbow gradient. The photo attribution is to What The Trans!?

Promoted by LGBTIQA+ Greens (Green Party), c/o PO Box 78066, London SE16 9GQ.

A photo in the background of a protest with trans and rainbow flags. In the foreground a big number: 5,000 is shown... with text underneath saying "LGBTIQA+ Greens Members". The number of 5,000 is bordered with a rainbow gradient. The photo attribution is to What The Trans!? Promoted by LGBTIQA+ Greens (Green Party), c/o PO Box 78066, London SE16 9GQ.

5,000 members! As @greenparty.org.uk has broke over 215,000 members, we've discovered that we're now past 5,000 members in the LGBTIQA+ Greens.

Our growth has been incredible over the last year, growing to at least double our previous size. Here's to many more members!

07.03.2026 20:49 πŸ‘ 45 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 2
A COMPUTER CAN NEVER GIVE YOU UP, THEREFORE A COMPUTER CAN NEVER LET YOU DOWN

A COMPUTER CAN NEVER GIVE YOU UP, THEREFORE A COMPUTER CAN NEVER LET YOU DOWN

07.03.2026 23:25 πŸ‘ 26 πŸ” 10 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Trump’s War on Iran Could Screw Over US Farmers The Middle East supplies a huge amount of the world’s fertilizer. Conflict in the region has sent prices soaring ahead of the critical spring planting season.

there's a lot going on right now but did you know a massive amount of the world's fertilizer flows through the middle east, and did you know that that fertilizer needs to be shipped to the us *right now* for planting season, and uh did you know we are at war with iran

04.03.2026 19:10 πŸ‘ 2655 πŸ” 1106 πŸ’¬ 136 πŸ“Œ 172

the last time i got to laundry zero, with everything not on my body clean & neatly put away, kissinger died within 4 hours

i will be back to L0 in about 3 hours, so, although the zero/death were clearly unrelated, let’s all put some energy into the universe in 3 hours
just in case

08.03.2026 01:15 πŸ‘ 69 πŸ” 13 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

Just saw a store advertising with the slogan β€œwellness is the new luxury,” which really says the quiet part out loud huh

08.03.2026 08:48 πŸ‘ 31 πŸ” 10 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

A common argument put forward by British AI boosters is that we *have to* hand the life’s work of the UK’s creatives to AI companies, because other countries are doing so.

But they are wrong, for three reasons.

🧡 1/6

08.03.2026 10:49 πŸ‘ 56 πŸ” 24 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 2

idk I’ve seen a bajillion kids movies where the kids parents die & let me tell you, having a convo with my kid about how anyone can die at any time & it doesn’t matter if they’re someone’s mom or dad is way harder than having a convo about how sometimes someone has two dads or whatever. And yet

08.03.2026 04:22 πŸ‘ 4928 πŸ” 1301 πŸ’¬ 48 πŸ“Œ 17
Prompt: please draw the best mouse
Output: an adorably naff mouse

Prompt: please draw the best mouse Output: an adorably naff mouse

Prompt: ai please draw a sneaky whale
Output: a small whale and the words "you can barely see him"

Prompt: ai please draw a sneaky whale Output: a small whale and the words "you can barely see him"

Prompt: show me the best cat
Output: dog in a cat mask. The words "not dog"

Prompt: show me the best cat Output: dog in a cat mask. The words "not dog"

I want to be friends with every single person on youraislopbores.me

07.03.2026 14:19 πŸ‘ 225 πŸ” 82 πŸ’¬ 16 πŸ“Œ 16

As a local resident I'm much more concerned about cars parking on pavements: they're far more dangerous to pedestrians when moving on & off pavements; they do more damage to the pavements themselves; and they take up far more space (& I can't drag a car out of the way like I can with a Voi!).

07.03.2026 14:25 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Algorithmic cruelty.

07.03.2026 14:05 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Legally, a car in a bike lane is a bicycle, so you can remove two of its wheels and they can't arrest you.

07.03.2026 00:27 πŸ‘ 118 πŸ” 27 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

the price of oil surging means you can burn your shein clothes, extract the oil, and make more money than you paid

07.03.2026 02:03 πŸ‘ 8568 πŸ” 968 πŸ’¬ 73 πŸ“Œ 28

Disability accommodations are a rare thing that actually trickles down. You like curb cutouts? Auto-opening doors? Jar openers? Ramps? Hand rails? YOU’RE WELCOME

Even as an abled person you use disability accommodations every single day.

Supporting accommodations actually helps everyone.

07.03.2026 00:13 πŸ‘ 1443 πŸ” 452 πŸ’¬ 21 πŸ“Œ 14
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Today I Will Look The Burrito Man In The Eye and other stories of manifesting success

06.03.2026 15:55 πŸ‘ 11562 πŸ” 2128 πŸ’¬ 111 πŸ“Œ 128