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Kaya Oakes

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Writer of nonfiction, Oakland kid, faculty in writing at UC Berkeley. Book #6, Not So Sorry, is available now. Ask me why breast cancer sucks. Missives: kayaoakes.substack.com

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A pilgrim and a stranger On trying to find a church

Since November I've visited a dozen or so churches of varying denominations, trying to find one that doesn't smother newcomers but doesn't completely ignore us either. This... has not happened. substack.com/home/post/p-...

02.03.2026 16:05 ๐Ÿ‘ 3 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Honestly I'm more insulted being called "prof" than being called dumb or dangerous. I'm a senior lecturer!

24.02.2026 17:23 ๐Ÿ‘ 5 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A question i've been thinking about a lot lately, and couldn't think of a better person than kaya to tackle it: what would repentance look like for trump supporters?

24.02.2026 02:44 ๐Ÿ‘ 24 ๐Ÿ” 4 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thanks again for asking!

24.02.2026 15:30 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

hell yeah

20.02.2026 01:43 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The only thing more Oakland than Alyssa Liu mouthing "that's what I'm fucking talking about" at the camera would be skating a routine to Mac Dre and ghostriding the whip in the Olympic Village parking lot.

20.02.2026 01:31 ๐Ÿ‘ 4 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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What Lent Asks of Christians Rethinking Trump Christians shouldn't shame people trying to leave Trump. But in the spirit of Lent, they should call them to repent.

Thanks @tylerhuckabee.bsky.social and @sojo.net for asking me to write about how the MAGA movement might learn something about repentance during Lent. sojo.net/articles/opi...

18.02.2026 22:47 ๐Ÿ‘ 7 ๐Ÿ” 3 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Very belatedly catching up with this news. Congrats!

03.01.2026 21:21 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thanks, you too.

31.12.2025 00:52 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
What I am saying is not that it is okay to fail, but that failure is going to happen and that your life still matters and still has meaning whether you published 75 essays this year or zero. Ultimately, your Guggenheim and your New York Times best sellers and your Substack checkmark and your CV and your lists of publications and your social media followers will not go with you into the grave. They will not offer any comfort in the chemo chair or in the dialysis clinic or in the surgical suite.

What will matter is how you lived your life.

What I am saying is not that it is okay to fail, but that failure is going to happen and that your life still matters and still has meaning whether you published 75 essays this year or zero. Ultimately, your Guggenheim and your New York Times best sellers and your Substack checkmark and your CV and your lists of publications and your social media followers will not go with you into the grave. They will not offer any comfort in the chemo chair or in the dialysis clinic or in the surgical suite. What will matter is how you lived your life.

This essay from last year seemed to be helpful to quite a few people, so, here it is again. kayaoakes.substack.com/p/against-am...

29.12.2025 23:28 ๐Ÿ‘ 8 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Like I said, it's *very* raunchy!

22.12.2025 00:14 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Ghosts of Media Past Three new books on the rise and fall of glossy magazines, alt weeklies, and gilded journalism.

"The age of gilded journalism was mostly smoke and mirrors, a magic show with no one behind the curtain."

@kayaoakes.bsky.social recommends books on the ghosts of media past:
www.commonwealmagazine.org/ghosts-media...

17.12.2025 13:54 ๐Ÿ‘ 5 ๐Ÿ” 2 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And I never had to think about RFK Jr in a sexual sorry I had to go vomit repeatedly

12.12.2025 23:55 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And the wigs are shit

12.12.2025 01:46 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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kermit the frog from the muppet show is standing in front of a red curtain . ALT: kermit the frog from the muppet show is standing in front of a red curtain .
10.12.2025 20:29 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The good thing is that the local progressive Christian community is pretty small, so chances are I know someone who knows someone there. But it's always intimidating starting all over again.

10.12.2025 01:59 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The thing is as a lefty Catholic with bad knees this was a worst case scenario moment for me

03.12.2025 01:21 ๐Ÿ‘ 7 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

ye merrie olde japes

03.12.2025 01:20 ๐Ÿ‘ 3 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes in a Roman Catholic church this is only for trads. That's why I was confused!

03.12.2025 01:17 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is going to wind up being the most controversial thing I've ever posted ๐Ÿ˜‚.

03.12.2025 00:08 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I defer to the clergy on this but the vibe of this church was extremely high church and very snooty and snobby but also very gay? I don't know how else to describe it, sorry. Cradle papist here, we went folk mass in the seventies.

03.12.2025 00:05 ๐Ÿ‘ 12 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Ghosts of Media Past Three new books on the rise and fall of glossy magazines, alt weeklies, and gilded journalism.

Thanks to the editors at @commonweal.bsky.social for asking me to be part of this year's Christmas Critics edition. This essay wound up being a Gen X anthem about the death of the gilded age of journalism. www.commonwealmagazine.org/ghosts-media...

30.11.2025 16:08 ๐Ÿ‘ 9 ๐Ÿ” 4 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

When someone falls off the edge of an actuarial table, they had a good run.

29.11.2025 21:02 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Suppose the lack of fun salad ingredients makes it puritanical.

28.11.2025 20:40 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I really want to know about this Mainliner Salad, Puritan.

28.11.2025 16:31 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We try!

28.11.2025 16:28 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I teach at Berkeley but I don't have a PhD (it does happen occasionally!). Jim Martin doesn't either but think he has the typical Jesuit MDiv/MTS. Massimo def has a PhD. If PhD is required maybe Natalia Imperatori-Lee, Nicole Flores, or Anthea Butler (is Catholic but teaches history).

21.11.2025 01:04 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The worst part is I get a sentence or two into reading and thinking "wow maybe this book I wrote in 2018 will have a second life if people are just discovering it now!" and then... fuck.

08.11.2025 21:14 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Watching the results come in my thoughts were
1. great
2. great, now New Yorkers will be even more insufferable

06.11.2025 18:58 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I was trying to illustrate a concept about simple music being more annoying, and this is the most evil example.

28.10.2025 23:12 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0