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Team JFSA and RandomGeekyMom from Twitter! All rolled into one nice concise account.

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Why did they get rid of this

03.03.2026 04:02 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Is anything wrong with a man helping his wife out in house chores?

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"helping"? Is that not your house too

Reply 581 views okoromaoby 1d Is anything wrong with a man helping his wife out in house chores? 134 ask_aubry 4h "helping"? Is that not your house too

The same energy of dudes who say they are "babysitting" their own kids.

02.03.2026 23:02 πŸ‘ 388 πŸ” 21 πŸ’¬ 18 πŸ“Œ 0
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When Rob walks out for his time on the reunion #TheTraitorsUS

27.02.2026 06:35 πŸ‘ 108 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Half of America votes to deliberately make people miserable while half votes for something that personally costs them nothing but would help others. #Survivor is yet again an unwitting microcosm.

26.02.2026 13:22 πŸ‘ 21 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1

Survivor 50 day!!!!! Can't believe it's finally here!!!!!

25.02.2026 15:13 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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When a woman knows you can be brutally ruthless if she misbehaves, she will always be in her best behaviour around you.

Only simps and weak men get punished by women.

dareakinkuade Threads 2h When a woman knows you can be brutally ruthless if she misbehaves, she will always be in her best behaviour around you. Only simps and weak men get punished by women.

What does an abuser say?

24.02.2026 23:10 πŸ‘ 275 πŸ” 17 πŸ’¬ 33 πŸ“Œ 1

Omg why don't they still have these

25.02.2026 15:12 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
I've stopped nagging my husband and i'm happier

Confession

I want to start off by staying, this is not one of those "just shut up and stay silent" type of things.

I have stopped nagging my husband, and I can say from the bottom of my heart, I am so much happier.

My husband, has always told me that I overreact to much, that I get to worked up and I am constantly nagging him. We fight constantly about him not putting enough effort into our relationship and him not doing his fair share of chores. I have to constantly remind him to be romantic, affectionate, and to pick up after himself.

I will say that yes I am a very emotional person, I grew up like that and have ALWAYS expressed my emotions and feelings with passion. When I am upset, I am very clear as to why and how it can be resolved. (thanks mom lol)

I've stopped nagging my husband and i'm happier Confession I want to start off by staying, this is not one of those "just shut up and stay silent" type of things. I have stopped nagging my husband, and I can say from the bottom of my heart, I am so much happier. My husband, has always told me that I overreact to much, that I get to worked up and I am constantly nagging him. We fight constantly about him not putting enough effort into our relationship and him not doing his fair share of chores. I have to constantly remind him to be romantic, affectionate, and to pick up after himself. I will say that yes I am a very emotional person, I grew up like that and have ALWAYS expressed my emotions and feelings with passion. When I am upset, I am very clear as to why and how it can be resolved. (thanks mom lol)

Recently something very big has happened, was pregnant for abt 5 weeks and lost it. The very emotional person I am, I was very sad and sulking and crying a lot. Looking for comfort in my husband, as one does, there was none. This is how he is, he says "I'm not very emotional and showing emotions is hard" Okay, I never blamed him for this. trauma, childhood, whatever.

I will admit that, yes I was giving him a hard time, being extra clingy (he does not like to cuddle or any mushy stuff, doesnt mind when I give it, just doesnt like to reciprocate, again never blamed him) wanting more love and support than I usually get from him, which is little to none.

I am usually the nurturing, loving, supportive one in our relationship. Its bothered me only in big situations like this where I truly NEED support and love and any sort of comfort.

Once I realized I would find absolutely NO comfort in my husband and no support, I cried the entire night and stayed up replaying every instance where, I ha

Recently something very big has happened, was pregnant for abt 5 weeks and lost it. The very emotional person I am, I was very sad and sulking and crying a lot. Looking for comfort in my husband, as one does, there was none. This is how he is, he says "I'm not very emotional and showing emotions is hard" Okay, I never blamed him for this. trauma, childhood, whatever. I will admit that, yes I was giving him a hard time, being extra clingy (he does not like to cuddle or any mushy stuff, doesnt mind when I give it, just doesnt like to reciprocate, again never blamed him) wanting more love and support than I usually get from him, which is little to none. I am usually the nurturing, loving, supportive one in our relationship. Its bothered me only in big situations like this where I truly NEED support and love and any sort of comfort. Once I realized I would find absolutely NO comfort in my husband and no support, I cried the entire night and stayed up replaying every instance where, I ha

I shouldn't give if I don't receive, so I stopped. everything. Love, support, nurturing, any physical intimacy (kissing, cuddling, etc), I stopped telling him what needed to be done, I stopped ASKING for romance and well everything, I stopped "nagging" as he would say.

Once I did this, he immediately noticed.

When he's at work, I usually give him updates about our 1 yr old and call to check in. Once he's home, I usually greet him with love and support from the work day. I usually listen to his long rants abt his hobbies. This time did-Nothing.

I give him head rubs and back scratches at night, I usually tell him he's so so handsome and how much I absolutely adore him abt 100 times a day. (Again I'm very passionate) Nothing.

I'm usually on him about work assignments, what needs to be done around the house -I need help on, how to manage our baby once he's home, I tell him to pick up after himself, I tell him to be romantic back and reassure me. Nothing.

I shouldn't give if I don't receive, so I stopped. everything. Love, support, nurturing, any physical intimacy (kissing, cuddling, etc), I stopped telling him what needed to be done, I stopped ASKING for romance and well everything, I stopped "nagging" as he would say. Once I did this, he immediately noticed. When he's at work, I usually give him updates about our 1 yr old and call to check in. Once he's home, I usually greet him with love and support from the work day. I usually listen to his long rants abt his hobbies. This time did-Nothing. I give him head rubs and back scratches at night, I usually tell him he's so so handsome and how much I absolutely adore him abt 100 times a day. (Again I'm very passionate) Nothing. I'm usually on him about work assignments, what needs to be done around the house -I need help on, how to manage our baby once he's home, I tell him to pick up after himself, I tell him to be romantic back and reassure me. Nothing.

It's been about a week, and my mental health has gotten so much better. I feel like when I had to manage two toddlers, now I have to manage only one. I have more free time to myself. I don't ask or listen to him abt his day, I don't worry abt him like I usually do, I pick up after my baby's and mine messes only. I don't have nearly as much to manage as I used to and I feel so free.

On the other hand, he is constantly asking me what's wrong, he's constantly checking in with me, he's doing all the things I usually would beg from him. He's being more physically intimate (although I'm the one rejecting now), he's asked on multiple occasions if I have fallen out of love with him, he's even tried apologizing for the way he's acted in the past. Telling me he knows he took me for granted, even trying to give me the support I needed the first initial days I begged for it.

I will have you glad to hear, or maybe not, I am absolutely not reciprocating or forgiving this so easily and I have no in

It's been about a week, and my mental health has gotten so much better. I feel like when I had to manage two toddlers, now I have to manage only one. I have more free time to myself. I don't ask or listen to him abt his day, I don't worry abt him like I usually do, I pick up after my baby's and mine messes only. I don't have nearly as much to manage as I used to and I feel so free. On the other hand, he is constantly asking me what's wrong, he's constantly checking in with me, he's doing all the things I usually would beg from him. He's being more physically intimate (although I'm the one rejecting now), he's asked on multiple occasions if I have fallen out of love with him, he's even tried apologizing for the way he's acted in the past. Telling me he knows he took me for granted, even trying to give me the support I needed the first initial days I begged for it. I will have you glad to hear, or maybe not, I am absolutely not reciprocating or forgiving this so easily and I have no in

Oh she isn't nagging because she's checked out. Like when the bucket is tipped over like this, it's impossible to get the water back in.

24.02.2026 13:47 πŸ‘ 330 πŸ” 19 πŸ’¬ 42 πŸ“Œ 3

Natalie Anderson’s only crime was being a bad ass #TheTraitorsUS

20.02.2026 05:32 πŸ‘ 128 πŸ” 14 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Alysa Liu is an ICON!!🀩🀩 ive watched her routine on a loop!!

20.02.2026 18:54 πŸ‘ 101 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 5 πŸ“Œ 0

Omg I thought ypu were talking about figure skating lmao #OlympicsBrain

19.02.2026 14:18 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

They were holding a bag of Funions just off camera

19.02.2026 01:10 πŸ‘ 1740 πŸ” 64 πŸ’¬ 139 πŸ“Œ 3
I feel like female contribution to the family can be summed up in the simple fact that mothers could absolutely never have a "secret second family."

I feel like female contribution to the family can be summed up in the simple fact that mothers could absolutely never have a "secret second family."

Yup

19.02.2026 00:13 πŸ‘ 483 πŸ” 50 πŸ’¬ 12 πŸ“Œ 2

Fyi my kid is 14, I'm not like abandoning a 6 year old hahaha

19.02.2026 14:11 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Not me having to tell my kid that Amber Glenn will be skating right when she gets home from school and to just give me 5 minutes lmao.

19.02.2026 14:10 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
An illustration of Super Mario, bursting through a brick wall, carrying a round, tan ice cream sandwich, which bears an image of himself holding a turnip

An illustration of Super Mario, bursting through a brick wall, carrying a round, tan ice cream sandwich, which bears an image of himself holding a turnip

Nintendo Ice Cream Sandwiches (1988-1989): Vanilla ice cream between two round, vanilla cookies, bearing the image of Super Mario from the American "Super Mario Bros 2", for which these treats were released as a promotional item.

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A red and white plastic thermos sits next to a metal lunchbox with the Fritos logo and the classic red, yellow, and white color scheme

A red and white plastic thermos sits next to a metal lunchbox with the Fritos logo and the classic red, yellow, and white color scheme

Day #215: Fritos (1975)

16.02.2026 12:54 πŸ‘ 461 πŸ” 51 πŸ’¬ 13 πŸ“Œ 17
AlTAH for ending things with my boyfriend after his dad told me I should quit my career to take care of his son

I dont usually post stuff like this online but I cant stop thinking about it and I need people who dont know us to tell me if Im crazy.

I was with my boyfriend for almost three years. I loved him. Like genuinely thought this was it for me. We lived together and I thought we were a team. I work full time and Im in school getting my degree because want to get into healthcare. Its been exhausting balancing both but I want a career and Im not giving that up for anyone.

His dad lives far away so I never met him until a few weeks ago when he came to visit. First night we all sit down for dinner and his dad starts asking me all these questions. Am I cooking for his son. Am I keeping the house clean. Am I making sure hes comfortable when he gets home from work.

I said yeah I do all of that. Which is true. I work all day go to class come home and still end up doing most of the hou

AlTAH for ending things with my boyfriend after his dad told me I should quit my career to take care of his son I dont usually post stuff like this online but I cant stop thinking about it and I need people who dont know us to tell me if Im crazy. I was with my boyfriend for almost three years. I loved him. Like genuinely thought this was it for me. We lived together and I thought we were a team. I work full time and Im in school getting my degree because want to get into healthcare. Its been exhausting balancing both but I want a career and Im not giving that up for anyone. His dad lives far away so I never met him until a few weeks ago when he came to visit. First night we all sit down for dinner and his dad starts asking me all these questions. Am I cooking for his son. Am I keeping the house clean. Am I making sure hes comfortable when he gets home from work. I said yeah I do all of that. Which is true. I work all day go to class come home and still end up doing most of the hou

Then his dad asked if I was planning to be a stay at home girlfriend. I said no. Told him about school and my career goals. He got this look on his face like I said something offensive and told me I should consider dropping out and focusing on taking care of his son full time. That thats what a good partner does.

I laughed at first because I thought he was joking. He wasnt.

Then he looked at my boyfriend and said you deserve someone who puts you first. And my boyfriend. The man I spent three years with. Just nodded. Didnt say a word to defend me. Didnt push back. Just sat there and agreed that he deserves a girlfriend whose whole life revolves around him.

I finished dinner and went to our room. That night I told him were done. He looked confused and asked why. I said because apparently I dont meet the requirements and he should go find someone who does.

He said I was making a big deal out of nothing and that his dad is just old fashioned. But he didnt disagree with him at that tabl

Then his dad asked if I was planning to be a stay at home girlfriend. I said no. Told him about school and my career goals. He got this look on his face like I said something offensive and told me I should consider dropping out and focusing on taking care of his son full time. That thats what a good partner does. I laughed at first because I thought he was joking. He wasnt. Then he looked at my boyfriend and said you deserve someone who puts you first. And my boyfriend. The man I spent three years with. Just nodded. Didnt say a word to defend me. Didnt push back. Just sat there and agreed that he deserves a girlfriend whose whole life revolves around him. I finished dinner and went to our room. That night I told him were done. He looked confused and asked why. I said because apparently I dont meet the requirements and he should go find someone who does. He said I was making a big deal out of nothing and that his dad is just old fashioned. But he didnt disagree with him at that tabl

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He didnt even flinch when his dad said you should give up your entire future for him. Thats not old fashioned thats a man telling you exactly where you stand and you were smart enough to listen

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thats what keeps replaying in my head like he didnt even hesitate he just nodded and I realized oh this is what he actually thinks he just never said it out loud before

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anitram96 2h

I applaud you! It's time all of us had enough self respect to leave when necessary.

NTA.

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AITAH for ending things with my boyfriend after h... 11 upvotes 6 comments Mysterious-Weight747 2h He didnt even flinch when his dad said you should give up your entire future for him. Thats not old fashioned thats a man telling you exactly where you stand and you were smart enough to listen 12 uwuforurmeat OP 2h thats what keeps replaying in my head like he didnt even hesitate he just nodded and I realized oh this is what he actually thinks he just never said it out loud before Internal_Emu 4879 10m anitram96 2h I applaud you! It's time all of us had enough self respect to leave when necessary. NTA. 7 Reply 2 IG & Threads

Good to hear about women finally not accepting less to keep the peace

09.02.2026 15:10 πŸ‘ 381 πŸ” 28 πŸ’¬ 42 πŸ“Œ 0
72-year-old boy cradling a slightly younger giant box of Chicken McNuggets.

72-year-old boy cradling a slightly younger giant box of Chicken McNuggets.

Just me and my Chicken McNuggets Super Value Pack from 1984.

04.02.2026 18:59 πŸ‘ 158 πŸ” 11 πŸ’¬ 9 πŸ“Œ 0
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I'm wearing my Yellowjackets jacket and ready for the final season.

04.02.2026 00:31 πŸ‘ 4525 πŸ” 182 πŸ’¬ 97 πŸ“Œ 27

Just got to this page myself and READER I CHUCKLED hahahahaha good job @stephenfishbach.bsky.social

02.02.2026 15:23 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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I'm absolutely dazzled and overwhelmed to be #3 on this week's EW Must List - right below Bridgerton and Wonder Man!
Thank you so much @DaltonRoss for your constant support and kindness, this justifies any number of weeping memes!

31.01.2026 16:18 πŸ‘ 80 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Can we ever get just one piece of good news? Thanks.

31.01.2026 00:30 πŸ‘ 1771 πŸ” 93 πŸ’¬ 136 πŸ“Œ 7

Omg, I can't believe it!!!!!!

30.01.2026 20:41 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
A square radio with big round headphones designed to look like pizzas, with the Pizza Hut logo

A square radio with big round headphones designed to look like pizzas, with the Pizza Hut logo

Headphones designed to look like supreme pizza

Headphones designed to look like supreme pizza

Sorry, I couldn't hear you! I was listening to my Pizza Hut AM radio with pan pizza headphones from Radio Shack

29.01.2026 02:42 πŸ‘ 2098 πŸ” 387 πŸ’¬ 43 πŸ“Œ 40
A black box that reads "Spitters Jawbreakers" in red letters, next to the Jurassic Park logo. Underneath are two plastic candy dispensers, shaped like the heads of a raptor and T-rex

A black box that reads "Spitters Jawbreakers" in red letters, next to the Jurassic Park logo. Underneath are two plastic candy dispensers, shaped like the heads of a raptor and T-rex

Jurassic Park Spitters (1992-1994): A line of tropical fruit-flavored jawbreakers released to promote "Jurassic Park". They were sold with plastic dispensers shaped like dinosaur heads, that would "spit" out the candy.

28.01.2026 14:36 πŸ‘ 212 πŸ” 34 πŸ’¬ 16 πŸ“Œ 12
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CBS has announced the 10 "iconic #Survivor episodes" that will air in the "Road to 50" programming lineup, starting 2/9 and leading into the #Survivor50 premiere on 2/25

27.01.2026 21:54 πŸ‘ 70 πŸ” 10 πŸ’¬ 13 πŸ“Œ 26

These don't exist anymore?!

26.01.2026 19:14 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

When the NRA finds out that a citizen was shot and killed by Federal troops merely because he was carrying a gun, there is going to be hell to pay. This is the exact scenario they have been warning us about! These are the jack-booted government troops from which we need unfettered liberty!

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