Parents’ Rights and Parents’ Wrongs
Forced Outing from the School Hallway to the Supreme Court to the State of the Union
On Monday night, SCOTUS issued an order indicating they may be inclined to side with policies that force teachers to out LGBTQI+ students to their legal guardians. Forced outing is something kind of hard to talk about. So it felt like maybe we should talk about it. sames.substack.com/parents-righ...
05.03.2026 19:51
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Make Them Look You in the Eye
Public Comments, Polite Smiles, and an Actually Pretty Interesting Bureaucratic Lever You Can Pull for Trans Youth Right the Heck Now
New Substack up!
We're talking about the sexiest thing in LGBTQI+ civil rights right now: federal administrative rulemaking.
I know. Hotter than Heated Rivalry.
But the comment period on 3 proposed anti-trans rules is about to close & you can help. sames.substack.com/make-them-look-you-in-the-eye
05.02.2026 19:59
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This is How We Lose
How Today’s Oral Arguments Become Tomorrow’s Decisions, How Their Decisions Become Our Story, and How to Make a Big Announcement at the End of a Substack Article
To paraphrase Dread Pirate Roberts, anyone who tells you they know what’s going to happen at SCOTUS is selling something. That goes double for bloggers. With this in mind, I’m becoming a blogger. Welcome to my Substack. Let's talk today's BPJ/Hecox oral arguments. sames.substack.com/p/this-is-ho...
13.01.2026 20:43
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Last month, HHS put out a report on gender-affirming care that reads like a checklist of logical fallacies. @adrianshanker.bsky.social & I published a piece in @newsweek.com on the consequences of misrepresenting evidence, and the real science behind healthcare for trans youth. tinyurl.com/3ryx2tbu
11.12.2025 14:38
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A Tribute for Transgender Day of Remembrance
YouTube video by National SOGIE Center
The wonderful folks at the National SOGIE Center adapted part of a piece I wrote for Transgender Day of Visibility into a gorgeous video. It was a genuine honor to be part of this: www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZOzo...
Here's the full text, with more on TDOR and ritual: substack.com/home/post/p-...
20.11.2025 18:20
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In Our Own Name
The Story of Trans Day of Remembrance and the Ritual of Reclamation
Trans Day of Remembrance was born in 1999 from a group of friends in Boston, and the simple act of saying their lost beloved's name out loud. Tonight we say the names of 69 new beloveds, and from our grief reclaim their power. I wrote a bit about the history of TDOR and the roots of the ritual here.
20.11.2025 18:05
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9 major faith denominations just released a statement supporting trans & intersex people, calling violation of our rights by those in power a betrayal of religious values.
Faith communities can be complicated for LGBTQI communities. But today, I’m proud to be a member of both.
tinyurl.com/3kkpvhk9
12.11.2025 17:04
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Square graphic featuring a quote on a white-to-gray gradient background above a colorful Progress Pride flag. The text reads: “Transgender, nonbinary, and intersex people are vulnerable today… Our faiths, our theologies, and our practices of prophetic witness call on us to say with one voice: YOU ARE HOLY. YOU ARE SACRED. WE LOVE YOU. WE SUPPORT YOU.” Beneath the quote, a small gray text box reads “Interfaith Statement in Support of Trans, Intersex, and Nonbinary People, Nov. 12, 2025.” The UUA flaming chalice logo appears in black over the Progress Pride flag, and “http://UUA.org ” is centered at the bottom in a dark blue rectangle.
UU President Rev. Dr. Sofía Betancourt joins faith leaders across traditions in proclaiming: transgender, intersex, and nonbinary people are holy, whole, and worthy of love. Together, we call out the misuse of religion to justify harm.
www.uuworld.org/articles/uua...
12.11.2025 16:36
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I'm still rotten at Bluesky, but should have tagged @mamadragons.bsky.social! Thank y'all so much for having me on!
21.07.2025 19:21
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For 10 years, the Mormon mothers at Mama Dragons have been one of my favorite examples of what happens when people of faith choose the message over the messenger - and, in nearly every religion on earth, the message is love. This week, I got to join their podcast.
Listen here: tinyurl.com/4rc7whc5
21.07.2025 19:14
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Some of the very best people I know have created a camp - it’s a retreat for those of us who do social justice work. Camp Ground is about rest: no work allowed.
If you organize, advocate, etc in ANY capacity (professionally, as a volunteer, in your spare time) this camp is probably for you.
03.07.2025 21:23
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The Fight For LGBTQ Rights
YouTube video by Politicon
Had the absolute privilege of joining Justice By Design this week to talk SCOTUS, Skrmetti, and sorry-you-can’t-actually-legislate-trans-people-out-of-existence. Thank you to the brilliant @kimberlyeatkins.bsky.social for thinking I’m cool enough to hang out with her. youtu.be/edZ7-XTsJzs?...
28.06.2025 22:28
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Visible and Unstoppable - Zoomathon — Unicorn Solutions
There's a livestream running all day where advocates, artists, & elected officials are sending messages of hope to LGBTQI+ kids. I'm honored to be doing a piece at 3:30ET, but rn Judy & Dennis Shepard are giving me life w/this gem: "They are louder, but they aren't brighter." tinyurl.com/mubcd5sf
26.06.2025 16:54
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A square graphic with a soft pink background and faint blue and pink gradient swirls. At the top left is the text “UUWORLD.ORG ” in small uppercase letters. In the top right corner is a navy blue box with the white text “UUWorld.” Centered on the graphic is a quote in large serif font: “We cannot cede the ground of faith, religion. We cannot cede the ground of the sacred.” Below the quote, in smaller italic sans-serif text, it reads:
– Sam Ames
Civil Rights Lawyer
In the bottom left corner is the UUA flaming chalice logo in a rainbow gradient.
At GA, UUs responded to the Skrmetti ruling with a powerful session led by Sam Ames and Adrienne Walker. The fight for trans youth, grounded in faith and love, continues.
📰 Read more in UU World: bit.ly/44fJrGz
👉 Follow UU World on IG: bit.ly/4nipN5x
#UUAGA #MeetTheMoment #SkrmettiDecision
20.06.2025 15:24
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What U.S. v. Skrmetti Did, What It Didn’t Do, and What It Can Never Do
There is going to be a lot of catastrophizing today. We lost U.S. v. Skrmetti, one of the biggest transgender civil rights cases of our…
Listen. We cannot predicate fighting on winning. We're going to lose a lot in the days to come, and if we’re going to make it through the nights we need to find something to fuel us that runs deeper than hope. We’re past hope.
We don't follow hope. Hope follows us.
19.06.2025 01:53
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It only took me 4 years, but I've officially joined the 21st century/Bluesky. Hello, less-cruel world.
19.06.2025 01:49
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