Power Is Everywhere: Why Understanding It Can Change How We See Ourselves and Our Families
When we hear the word power, many of us imagine something obvious — governments, authority figures, or people in positions of control. But power is far more present in our everyday lives than we often realise. It exists in families, in schools, in workplaces, in friendships, and even in the quiet expectations we carry about who we are supposed to be.
Power Is Everywhere: Why Understanding It Can Change How We See Ourselves and Our Families
When we hear the word power, many of us imagine something obvious — governments, authority figures, or people in positions of control. But power is far more present in our everyday lives than we often…
06.03.2026 10:51
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Distress isn’t always pathology.
Often it’s a reasonable response to unreasonable systems — pressure, power imbalance, lack of safety or choice.
What changes when we stop asking “What’s wrong with you?” and ask “What are you responding to?”
#MentalHealth #SystemsThinking
20.01.2026 06:41
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The Line Between Gratitude and Gaslighting: When “Wanting Too Much” Is a Lie
Gratitude is often held up as a healing force, a way to reconnect with what matters, to ground ourselves in moments of light during dark times. And for many of us who have lived through emotional abuse, coercive control, or simply chronic minimisation, gratitude was a kind of survival. We learned to find meaning in crumbs. We trained ourselves to focus on what we had, because asking for more felt dangerous.
The Line Between Gratitude and Gaslighting: When “Wanting Too Much” Is a Lie
Gratitude is often held up as a healing force, a way to reconnect with what matters, to ground ourselves in moments of light during dark times. And for many of us who have lived through emotional abuse, coercive control,…
30.07.2025 07:42
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MH distress isn’t a malfunction—it’s a response. A story. A sign that something bigger is at play. What if you’re not the problem? What if your distress makes sense? The PTMF shifts the question from ‘What’s wrong with you?’ to ‘What’s happened to you?’—because context matters.
06.03.2025 10:41
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Who holds the power in the spaces you navigate daily, and how does that shape your emotions, confidence, or stress? Naming power is the first step to change. #PowerAwareness #SystemicChange
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22.02.2025 09:21
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💡 What if your anxiety isn’t the problem—but a warning sign? 💡
Your feelings aren’t a failure—they’re information. Listen to them. Then ask: What needs to change?
#ChallengeTheSystem #PTMF #TraumaInformedCare #MentalHealthMatters
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21.02.2025 08:41
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🚨 Long waiting lists don’t just delay care—they retraumatise those in need. Trauma-informed care means recognising the harm in systemic barriers and demanding better. Mental health support should be accessible, not a privilege.
#TraumaAware #EndTheWait #MentalHealthMatters
18.02.2025 15:44
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⏳ When Families Wait, the System Is Failing ⏳
This isn’t an individual failure. It’s a systemic one. Underfunded services, overwhelmed professionals, and structural inequalities decide who gets care and who doesn’t.
#EndTheWait #FamilySupport #SystemicChange
16.02.2025 11:12
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The human brain develops within the interaction of its environment, it's a process. So schools should be in the development of nurturing healthy brains as they develop until adulthood.Schools should be places of emotional nurturing,not just a transmission of facts and ability.🧠🌱
12.02.2025 06:51
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The Power of Reflection: Exploring Relationships Through a Systemic Lens
Relationships are central to the human experience, shaping our sense of self, our emotions, and our interactions with the world. However, these relationships do not exist in isolation; they are embedded within broader systemic structures that influence our experiences, expectations, and behaviours. Reflections on Connections: A Journal to Explore Adult Relationships offers a structured approach to exploring these dynamics, providing an invaluable tool for individuals seeking deeper understanding and more fulfilling interpersonal connections.
The Power of Reflection: Exploring Relationships Through a Systemic Lens
Relationships are central to the human experience, shaping our sense of self, our emotions, and our interactions with the world. However, these relationships do not exist in isolation; they are embedded within broader…
11.02.2025 14:12
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Struggle isn’t just about mindset—it’s shaped by systems. Work burnout? Parenting stress? Lack of support. 💡 Reflect:
• What system is influencing your stress?
• How does shifting from self-blame to awareness change things?
• What small action could challenge that system?
#systemicchange
11.02.2025 14:00
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🔍 What We Can’t Name, We Can’t Change 🔍
The struggles we face aren’t just personal—they’re shaped by power structures around us. When we name them, we take back control.
Awareness is the first step to change. What’s one system you’ve noticed in your life? ⬇️
#Empowerment #MentalHealth #Resilience
09.02.2025 19:03
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Instead of self-blame, try this: What’s happening around me that’s contributing to how I feel? Often, the answers lie in the systems we’ve learned to accept. But change begins with awareness. #MentalHealthMatters #SystemicAwareness
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07.02.2025 16:56
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Resilience isn’t just about ‘bouncing back.’ It’s about seeing what’s holding us down in the first place. When we understand the systems influencing us, we can create spaces that nurture—not just survive. #Resilience #Wellbeing #This
05.02.2025 17:29
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We often internalise stress as a personal failure, but what if it’s a symptom of the systems around us? By exploring the environments that shape us, we can uncover the roots of distress and work towards real, lasting change. #SystemicChange #MentalHealthAwareness
01.02.2025 12:39
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#mentalhealth #srtidementalhealth #anti-pathology #systemicthinking #families
26.11.2024 12:54
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How do associations between role conflict-ambiguity and work-family conflict manifest among parent-counsellors and non-parent counsellors working with young people aged 0-18? DOI: 10.13140/RG.2.2.25118.96329
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26.11.2024 12:41
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#stridementalhealth #systemicthinking #anti-pathology #families
25.11.2024 14:37
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#stridementalhealth #systemicfamilywork #antipathology #families #mentalhealth
21.11.2024 07:16
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This is a great read!
20.11.2024 19:53
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Yes please can you possibly add me?
20.11.2024 19:49
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#stridementalhealth #familysystems #systemic #antipathology
20.11.2024 19:21
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