G.U.N.K.L.E

I haven’t said I’m angry, or highly offended. I said I’m exhausted about having to come out on a daily basis.

Your assumptions are incorrect.

We must have different definitions of kindness and grace then

Perhaps you should have made your comments with kindness and grace in mind

💯

Thanks for your input

Thanks for your input

It’s also human to learn from your mistakes

Men probably feeling that their masculinity is “under attack” 🙄

Ugh. Stupid stereotypes

If you don’t know the gender of a person just say ‘they’ or ‘their’

It’s really that simple

Thanks. Partner is enough or the word ‘they’ would work.

Exactly. I felt ‘safe’ to say that I have a male partner but again, that’s not always the case.

Saying you’re divorced, that you’re a Ms not a Mrs, or that you don’t have children, doesn’t carry the same fear that we anticipate based on past experiences.

Neutral terms like ‘your partner’ work perfectly.

And yes, everyone deals with assumptions, but for queer people it’s tied to identity, not just circumstance.

It’s patronising to call someone “over‑sensitive” when they’re just asking for basic respect.

They should never assume

Ugh — the dentist referred to my partner as “she” this morning.

I could’ve just nodded along, but instead said, “My partner’s a he.”

One of those reminders that being gay often means quietly coming out again and again in everyday moments.

And it’s exhausting.

Nothing like a woman being harassed on international women’s day.

Bunch of anti trans idiots

🤣

😂

🤣

I probably shouldn’t have asked.

Banned for life.

Ta! 💃

Thank you

It’s been so long, I’m psyching myself up 😂

🙌

Why no swimming?

A handbell is a very good idea 😂
Thank you

Good to hear he’s doing fine 🙏🏻

A beautiful DM, just before I go to bed. P.s - I’m a bloke 🙄😂