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@robingender

Trans girl* looking for community. She/they. Musician, gamer, parent. Knows enough about tech to trust it less each day. *Transfeminine person in her 30s with a toddler who doesn't quite know how to be a woman yet.

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Just tried it for the first time:
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My spouse was just peaking over my shoulder asking me what I was playing, so I think this is about to be a thing in our house now lol, so thank you. <3

05.03.2026 12:36 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Woodworking is ONE YEAR OLD today. The last year has been the wildest and most wonderful of my life. I'm so grateful to everyone who read this book, even the people who thought it was mid.

If you haven't, you, too, can read Woodworking today! Or preorder the paperback! bookshop.org/p/books/wood...

04.03.2026 17:45 πŸ‘ 131 πŸ” 16 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 5

Yeah, this is my personality but Windows got so bad I jumped ship to Linux finally. My new computer had Windows pre installed but I should install Linux again.

Side note: do you know anything about Zorin OS? It was really smooth and convenient, but it's probably run by Irish Mafia or something.

20.02.2026 18:12 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Also, you don't give up on the possible nihilists because you'll sometimes be wrong. You also need to stand up to the bullies to bolster everyone else listening. That's part of how Mamdani gained momentum: standing up loudly to Tom Homan.

12.02.2026 14:08 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

That said, we shouldn't let them keep power if we've seen their harm in the past. That goes for both the deeply bigoted (ex: Steven Miller, Donald Trump) and the power hungry (ex: Gavin Newsom, Donald Trump).

12.02.2026 14:06 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Stand on moral principles, loudly denounce the bad, make it hard to quietly wield that power. Those willing to put in effort will get there eventually. If we make it unsafe to be racist/fascist again, those just looking for power will play the new game. That's a net good if they do.

12.02.2026 14:04 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

After this and the other thread I understand better what you're saying. My summary: some are those that need to confront their 'goodness' like I mentioned, and some are forever stuck in deep bias or power.

My thoughts again: They're different, but maybe we approach them similarly?

12.02.2026 14:03 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

I've said this before, but it makes me insane that in an age of human civilization when the ultra-rich have hoarded over half of all wealth, the go-to visual shorthand for depictions of gluttony is still "fat"

12.02.2026 02:55 πŸ‘ 1260 πŸ” 312 πŸ’¬ 13 πŸ“Œ 3

And like they can work through it. I have for my own biases and continue to be open to further critique now.

And of course there is a way this definitely applies to MAGA, but if you don't imagine this is an issue with people on the left or your own self you're missing a huge part of the point.

12.02.2026 07:45 πŸ‘ 12 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I think you're missing who this is about. I work with mostly cis, white, liberal people who are trying to do good in the world. Their own sense of goodness makes it hard to change sometimes. If learning about bias makes them feel like a bad person, the training must be wrong because ~they are good~.

12.02.2026 07:42 πŸ‘ 13 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

The straights can keep Jaimie, but Eowyn being that kind of bi* where she dates exactly one man ever and then Aragorn transitions would track for me.

*Maybe bi isn't the right label looking back at her relationships

10.02.2026 18:22 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Exciting! Good luck!

... also I need to share that my brain read that first thing as om-gom-gom too many times before I successfully figured it out.

09.02.2026 02:54 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Today's mood: gender is fake and sucks. Taking hormones is cool though.

04.02.2026 19:56 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Oh, got it. That makes sense from the one video I've seen. I'm just so ready for things to line up behind milkshake duck.

26.01.2026 18:11 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Ms Rachel the person is great. I'm sick of her YouTube channel, but that's just me being tired of programming aimed at 6 month olds.

26.01.2026 18:08 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Wait, what are the opinions on Blippi? I only know them from a Ms Rachel crossover episode. We have like 3 approved YouTube channels for our toddler because I know there's a lot of crap stuff out there. (And of course feel free to ignore, but if you feel like going on a rant, etc...)

26.01.2026 18:06 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm just generally anxious about fascism descending. My fears are basically the ham fisted kind of plans just... not being countered. Their plan in 2021 was to declare themselves the winners regardless. With how our Congress and sup court act, my fear is no one would make them leave in future.

25.01.2026 19:35 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Some of it isn't expressly stand-up, but if you're in that mood a lot of the stuff on Dropout TV will probably hit the spot.

23.01.2026 18:01 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Very similar for me. Shoe size down maybe a half size? Definitely a noticeable but not huge amount. Haven't measured height in a bit. Eyes changed for the first time in almost two decades mostly for the better, but I also have mild astigmatism now. Transitioning in my 30s, ~1.5 years on E now.

22.01.2026 03:52 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Hey, @smith.senate.gov and especially @klobuchar.senate.gov this is the energy we need you to be bringing right now. I'm your constituent, and I also just left you voicemails with basically this message.

22.01.2026 03:42 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

As others are saying, abolish ice is the minimum. This is good, but keep going.

I'm one of your constituents. Don't let them keep brutalizing my friends, family, and neighbors.

22.01.2026 01:23 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

He also gave me one of my favorite quotes. He joked about liking to hire lazy people because they knew how to get things done as fast as possible so they could be done with it. I've described myself as that kind of lazy for a long time.

19.01.2026 02:20 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Even better, he occasionally did a black and blue prime rib special with blackened seasonings and blue cheese that was soooo good (the prime rib was still tender). I miss that. I've never found anywhere else that makes anything close (admittedly I have not been searching hard, but you get the idea).

19.01.2026 02:16 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

This part isn't particularly special, but I fell in love with Buffalo wings and blue cheese there.

The chef/owner was really good, like better than a small town usually gets. He served up some reaaally good prime rib there that I think wasn't that expensive (I was a kid, my parents were paying).

19.01.2026 02:14 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

For me it was this local diner/steakhouse/restaurant named after the owner's grandma in our small town. I think the business still exists, but I haven't been back to that town in two decades and the owner that made it good left at about the same time.

19.01.2026 02:11 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Agree. I also transitioned later (at ~30). I feel for me that a big part of similar feelings is that I had developed some really thick armor that was fueled by my dissociation, and as I got healthier and more connected to myself the armor didn't work as well. That's good! But also hard.

15.01.2026 10:32 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I think movie runtime is an underexamined form of directorial privilege. That's why I set the playback speed of every movie so that it lasts exactly one hour.

14.01.2026 22:14 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Making some very spicy ramen has helped our family weather the everything this weekend.

11.01.2026 01:24 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

There are similar warnings and conversations happening in my community.

08.01.2026 18:53 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

In 2026 I want all of the decent people to remember one thing.

You aren’t meant to be this disciplined, this self-sacrificing to survive. The environment is supposed to support good living. We can have that. You are not a failure. That is politics.

That is all.

01.01.2026 22:30 πŸ‘ 9749 πŸ” 2329 πŸ’¬ 38 πŸ“Œ 84