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EM Risk/Fraud @Square, Xoogler via Caltech Wife of @pyrojo.bsky.social Yet another Seattle urbanist

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Close to a million women files for for divorce in 2024 and only a 150,000 men. thats such a big difference. So looking at the numbers men are the ones trying to make the marriage work. Damn.

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Men will start whole second families while they wait for their ex to file.

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Reply jumanojamaal1983 49m Close to a million women files for for divorce in 2024 and only a 150,000 men. thats such a big difference. So looking at the numbers men are the ones trying to make the marriage work. Damn. 10 ask_aubry now Men will start whole second families while they wait for their ex to file. ♡ G Add to thread

Funny how they think this is a gotcha, when it's more proof of weaponized incompetence.

07.03.2026 13:49 👍 319 🔁 21 💬 27 📌 0

A big step in adulthood is realizing that buying fresh ginger and garlic along with having some sesame oil and Shaoxing cooking wine on hand allows you to make all the same sad stir fries you made in your 20’s but suddenly they’re good and you’re good at cooking

07.03.2026 14:42 👍 663 🔁 40 💬 15 📌 5
Page of forever stamps with a picture of Alex Trebek and a jeopardy style Answer reading “this naturalized US citizen hosted the quiz show Jeopardy! For 37 seasons”

Page of forever stamps with a picture of Alex Trebek and a jeopardy style Answer reading “this naturalized US citizen hosted the quiz show Jeopardy! For 37 seasons”

Spouse who is an immigration lawyer just got the world’s greatest USPS forever stamps for his mail

07.03.2026 02:47 👍 1361 🔁 209 💬 18 📌 21

First they came for the trans people, and I said nothing because I wasn’t trans. Then they were like actually I’m pretty sure you are trans and I said no I’m not and they went okay well show us your penis then and I said what no get out of my face and they said that one’s a girl get her

06.03.2026 16:05 👍 2513 🔁 542 💬 6 📌 0
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This Day in Labor History: March 7, 1932. Several thousand unemployed workers marched toward Henry Ford’s River Rouge plant in Dearborn, Michigan. Upon reaching the complex, Henry Ford's hired thugs opened fired and killed some of them! Let's talk about Ford and his horrors!!!

07.03.2026 15:28 👍 113 🔁 47 💬 1 📌 3

They can be a little soft but I'm used to a delicate flavor. Maybe problem with that source, though Pike Place frontage sellers are usually solid.

07.03.2026 04:28 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Tech jobs are getting demolished in ways not seen since 2008 and the dot-com bust It's a rough time to be looking for a tech job. Economist Joseph Politano said losses in the industry outpaced those in the last two recessions.

We have crossed 3 years of constant layoffs in tech and it’s now a worse job market than the housing crisis and COVID.

It’s on track to be as bad as the dotcom crash which was a four year downturn, thanks to AI-driven layoffs, since it doesn’t look like the tech job market willl recover this year.

07.03.2026 03:43 👍 119 🔁 32 💬 5 📌 5

"I have usernames older than you"

(There's no coming back from that)

06.03.2026 03:01 👍 8 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0
Kristi Noem before and after her MAGA plastic surgery mistakes

Kristi Noem before and after her MAGA plastic surgery mistakes

dog this is straight up fucking crazy

05.03.2026 22:45 👍 2886 🔁 249 💬 144 📌 184

I loved this show very very much a long time ago

it is long past time to let it (and certainly Whedon and Baldwin) fade away

05.03.2026 21:49 👍 1670 🔁 152 💬 66 📌 9

Someone very smart (maybe @hacks4pancakes.com ?) once said on reading news about big breaches "Everyone who knows anything is under NDA. So if you see someone talking, by definition they don't know what they're talking about."

It stuck with me. And yeah, that basically applies to everything

05.03.2026 20:37 👍 129 🔁 19 💬 6 📌 1

/4 Anyway, a long-time theme of Trumpism, and an increasingly common theme of the Republican Party, is that violence is justified against protesters because protesters are evil. It’s a deeply foul, thuggish, un-American sentiment.

05.03.2026 03:39 👍 1329 🔁 158 💬 19 📌 3
“They were very productive, so I thought, ‘Maybe there’s something here,’” he told the Wall Street Journal, referencing when he saw Zyn tins on engineers’ desks. 

After going through two or three pouches a day, he knew he had to stop.

“Then, I accidentally got addicted,” he said.

“They were very productive, so I thought, ‘Maybe there’s something here,’” he told the Wall Street Journal, referencing when he saw Zyn tins on engineers’ desks. After going through two or three pouches a day, he knew he had to stop. “Then, I accidentally got addicted,” he said.

Founder FAFO story.

05.03.2026 02:29 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Also I guess evil is a brand identity.

05.03.2026 02:25 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Oil and mining work may give you cancer, but at least they don't try to say it's a perk.
fortune.com/2026/03/04/p...

05.03.2026 02:25 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

they really might have ridden the anti-woke train all the way to bankruptcy court, an all time brand fuckup that should be taught as a cautionary tale in business school for decades

03.03.2026 16:55 👍 4538 🔁 746 💬 74 📌 42

I ate a large clove of raw garlic today (there were reasons) and I gotta say...I can't recommend it. It was a weird enough sensation that I did a bit of a dive on pain receptors in the mouth. Turns out, garlic activates a totally different pain receptor than capsaicin!

04.03.2026 05:41 👍 1840 🔁 50 💬 112 📌 11

kind of crazy that if you have enough money and don't like what you see in the media, you can just buy up every film studio, news station, and social media app and change it

04.03.2026 02:51 👍 16509 🔁 2660 💬 266 📌 135

When someone says „Scientists do not want you to know“ you can dismiss everything from there on. Scientists want you to know. They are desperate that you know. They can’t shut up about what they found out and want you to know.

03.03.2026 12:10 👍 9447 🔁 4106 💬 77 📌 164

Ah shit is my cozy beaver building game going to get frostpunk vibes? Like I love frostpunk, but explicitly aiming for light at the moment.

03.03.2026 05:57 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

frankly I was out on that guy way back when I found out he worked for blackwater. completely disqualifying. same reason I'd never vote for anyone who ever worked at mckinsey. or like, owned a car dealership

02.03.2026 16:36 👍 1014 🔁 83 💬 31 📌 3
Mantrap vs Sallyport vs Interlock... Which Term is the Proper Term?
Mantrap vs Sallyport vs Interlock... Which Term is the Proper Term? YouTube video by DeviantOllam

My video this week asks people a question about terminology and seeks to untangle certain words that are often applied haphazardly and potentially incorrectly in our industry.

Have you ever heard any of these terms being used? (Possibly the wrong way?) 🚪🤔

youtu.be/S9-WoHky67A

02.03.2026 19:19 👍 62 🔁 13 💬 12 📌 2
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'I get rid of dogs as soon as they stop being cute puppies' In the past four years, I have fallen in love with four puppies and bought them for hundreds of pounds, writes Shona Sibary. Then, months later, I have turned my back on them and given them away.

ok this actually is someone who gets off on being yelled at
www.dailymail.co.uk/lifestyle/ar...

02.03.2026 15:39 👍 269 🔁 13 💬 17 📌 2
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new mcmansion hell to cleanse the horrors: mcmansionhell.com/post/8099372...

02.03.2026 01:53 👍 1273 🔁 296 💬 76 📌 1
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Chlorine Dioxide, Raw Camel Milk: The FDA No Longer Warns Against These and Other Ineffective Autism Treatments The FDA has taken down a webpage warning about therapies and products making “false claims” of treating autism. It’s part of a series of actions the agency has taken under Secretary Robert F. Kennedy ...

Chlorine dioxide, a chemical used for disinfecting and bleaching.

Pressurized pure oxygen.

Raw camel milk.

Under RFK Jr., the FDA has taken down a webpage warning about these and other dangerous remedies claiming to treat autism.

02.03.2026 00:00 👍 1239 🔁 597 💬 103 📌 131

Honestly both are all in on edge cases, dirty hacks, absolutely bizarre tribal knowledge, and crushing amounts of jargon from what I can tell.

02.03.2026 00:32 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

this is so funny because that’s what I think lawyers think software is

01.03.2026 22:58 👍 29 🔁 3 💬 3 📌 2

Like the slang version is probably also true, but literally just fuel is a problem for Iran's government.

02.03.2026 00:20 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Between Russia's clownishness in Ukraine (17 miles of out-of-gas vehicles) and the limpness of Iran's response here, I think I'm coming to understand how these rogue actors use their militaries - low-tech brutality to harm citizens and weaker neighbors, but on top of that, mostly just embezzlement.

28.02.2026 17:57 👍 117 🔁 7 💬 3 📌 2

shockingly people are capable of simultaneously,

1. Hating their government

2. Hating the people who bomb and sanction their country, making regular life impossible and murdering members of their family, even more

01.03.2026 17:31 👍 6893 🔁 1133 💬 62 📌 23