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she/they, trans-fem ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ, T1D, forced to drop out of my PhD for being too gender, bad jokes and occasional bike posts. Send me your favourite song ๐Ÿ˜‡

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One of the reasons I quit academia was seeing this playbook working over and over again, even in totally unrelated fields. The system has always been broken, but this is a version of broken we cannot fix from within the system like most academics believe.

10.03.2026 00:41 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is how the sport bans were forced through as well, but that was also ignored (read; encouraged) by the people calling the shots too. Funny that.

10.03.2026 00:41 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

All those men I'm *not* sleeping with yeah ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

09.03.2026 19:16 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've raced multiple *bicycle criteriums* on courses that size. Yikes.

09.03.2026 18:38 ๐Ÿ‘ 5 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is my first! I am not enjoying it

09.03.2026 18:37 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Plus, bonus: "are you known to be diabetic?"

Yes lol, it's been like 18 years of it thanks

09.03.2026 18:15 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Welp that's another doctor that's presumed me to be AFAB (and straight!?)

"I'm surprised this is your first one at your age, we all know men aren't always great with their hygiene down there."

09.03.2026 18:15 ๐Ÿ‘ 6 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oversharing? Me?

Never.

09.03.2026 15:40 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Catch 22:

I need the Dr to call me back because I'm pretty sure I have a UTI.

vs

This is probably going to be the most uncomfortable conversation ever if they do actually call me.

09.03.2026 15:40 ๐Ÿ‘ 3 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
Preview
lightning mcqueen from the movie cars is driving down a race track . Alt: lightning mcqueen from the movie cars is driving down a race track .

They be letting cars design outfits now apparently

09.03.2026 15:37 ๐Ÿ‘ 14 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

(This goes for both the US and UK)

08.03.2026 13:12 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm not even *that* young and it still feels the same. Too many people so focused on being "sensible" that they not only consistently fail to make change or deal with bad actors in their ranks, they also completely miss how the political landscape has fundamentally changed over the last 5-10 years.

08.03.2026 13:11 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Trying to force a hand I suspect

08.03.2026 12:05 ๐Ÿ‘ 5 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I coached at a Go-Ride club in that period and 100% agree with that assessment. Despite all the big talk from head office it was very plainly a handful of people "on the ground" making the really impactful stuff happen and that's never changed

08.03.2026 11:34 ๐Ÿ‘ 9 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's nice to know that at least some people held fast to their morals when those who I used to consider my community seemed to simply shrug and carry on... and it seems BC hasn't exactly been on an upward trajectory since!

08.03.2026 11:02 ๐Ÿ‘ 14 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Just wanted to say thank you for taking action, Roger. I raced, ran clubs, and helped organise the occasional event for 15 years until I was forced out by BC's ban - it felt like a handful of people spoke up for a short while and then just gave up when the ban wasn't retracted a few months later.

08.03.2026 11:02 ๐Ÿ‘ 31 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes and no. The Tory governments of the last 5+ years whipped up rhetoric and laid the groundwork (see: GIDS closure, packing EHRC etc with GCs, Truss directing sports federations to ban trans women), this Labour government just happen to be the ones turning that groundwork into wider action.

08.03.2026 10:26 ๐Ÿ‘ 4 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It took me a solid 5 minutes to realise this was probably about daylight savings time

08.03.2026 10:09 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The way I've approached hair removal (both for pain and discomfort reasons) is treating it a bit like a rite of passage tbh. Like, my sisters before me have gotten through this, and so will many of my sisters yet to come, therefore I can do it too

07.03.2026 16:27 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Fingers crossed ๐Ÿคž

07.03.2026 01:33 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Many such cases

07.03.2026 01:22 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'll say ๐Ÿ˜Ž

07.03.2026 01:19 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Anglais? Mauvais.

07.03.2026 01:18 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am dealing/have dealt with similar shit over here on a much more minor political level. They always *hate* that I was proven right, and I've had at least one try to personally smear me over it ๐Ÿ™„

07.03.2026 01:14 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ughhh

07.03.2026 01:02 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So cool that bodies just do that if you give them the right hormone. Congrats!

06.03.2026 16:08 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ugh

06.03.2026 14:07 ๐Ÿ‘ 7 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The one that really grinds my gears is when certain trans people who seem to have self-appointed themselves to speak for all of us use it. A certain ex-newsreader is particularly bad for it.

06.03.2026 13:21 ๐Ÿ‘ 6 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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06.03.2026 13:08 ๐Ÿ‘ 5 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Congrats!!

06.03.2026 13:03 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0