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geekgyrl // (say 'Ι‘Δ“k-Ι‘Ι™rl') n. GenX Mom/Wife/Geek β€’ Professional Cat-Herder β€’ Autistic β€’ Ally πŸ³β€πŸŒˆ πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ β€’ Rebel Scum β€’ Humanist β€’ Anti-Fascist β€’ Fuck You, Make Me "If you're not pissed off, you're not paying attention." No DMs 🚫 β€’ Blocks Without Remorse πŸ’₯

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When I told both of my daughters that I had been diagnosed with Autism, both of them said, "Yeah, we know."

Thinking about it makes me laugh. Apparently, they thought I was autistic for years but didn’t want to say something in case it might upset me. πŸ˜‚

10.03.2026 14:42 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

But I think I did OK. Both of my girls are autistic, and I just seem to naturally vibe with them. Their doctors for years thought I was on the spectrum as well. I just brushed it off, thinking that I was just odd and had issues because I had an abusive upbringing. That certainly wasn’t the case.

10.03.2026 14:42 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Originally never wanted kids, but life happens.

I can tell you I initially felt some disconnect when they presented me with this small wrinkled thing in a blanket. The idea of being a parent was foreign to me. I certainly didn’t have a great role models in my own parents...

10.03.2026 14:42 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Despite all this, I articulate well, except when my dysphonetic dyslexia gets in the way. I was a straight A student in school.

I would’ve never fit the criteria of the DSM back in the 70s and 80s. Nevertheless, the signs were always there.

10.03.2026 14:28 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

And I still check the room to see if I’m having an appropriate response to things. Laughing is one. If I see something funny on TV that makes me laugh, I still double check those around me to make sure they’re laughing, too.

10.03.2026 14:28 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I've struggled for years to fit in. I have to mask constantly to pretend I’m normal, and it is exhausting. I have meltdowns when I'm overwhelmed or overstimulated. I hate making eye contact. I have to constantly monitor how I say things...

10.03.2026 14:28 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

i’m glad the article states the facts. I’m late diagnosed. Not only that, I have the key genetic mutations seen in those with autism. Both of my children are autistic, and I 100% guarantee that my father is, too; although, he’ll never get tested.

10.03.2026 14:28 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I read that in Christopher Walken's voice.

10.03.2026 03:09 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Take a moment and call or email your Senators today. Trump is strong-arming GOP legislators, threatening to not sign any legislation Congress may pass until the β€œSAVE Act” is passed…all the more reason to protect our voting rights! #StopVoterSuppression

09.03.2026 16:25 πŸ‘ 10 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0
Screenshot from the second JJ Abrams β€œStar Trek” reboot with the new actor playing the villain Khan scowling and declaring β€œYou should have let me sleep.”

Screenshot from the second JJ Abrams β€œStar Trek” reboot with the new actor playing the villain Khan scowling and declaring β€œYou should have let me sleep.”

Day 2 of Daylight Saving Time:

09.03.2026 14:35 πŸ‘ 599 πŸ” 109 πŸ’¬ 14 πŸ“Œ 3
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Good morning and welcome to marvellous marmalade Monday

People rarely pretend to be hurting
more often they pretend they’re okay.

So be gentle with others.
You never know what someone may be carrying, whether physical or emotional.

Choose kindness, always. 🧑

09.03.2026 05:38 πŸ‘ 669 πŸ” 62 πŸ’¬ 17 πŸ“Œ 4

Stunning. πŸ’œ

09.03.2026 14:34 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

And he sort of became the character he played on News Radio, to an extent. Or he was just playing himself and has gotten worse over time.

09.03.2026 05:13 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm trying not to borrow trouble here, but I have two teenage step-sons who will be hitting 18 this year. They are already worried about and having difficulty with the state of the country and world atm. I just worry this is one more topic to add to the pile for them... πŸ˜•

08.03.2026 22:44 πŸ‘ 32 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

I fucking HATE Trump.

I mean, I've strongly disliked people before, but never hated.

But this motherfucker has all my burning, seething hatred.

08.03.2026 15:41 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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captain marvel is saying `` i have nothing to prove to you '' in avengers : age of ultron . Alt: captain marvel is saying `` i have nothing to prove to you ''

This. I have blind spots for the same reason. But even when I don't, there is always someone hell bent looking to argue or piss in my Wheaties.

When I was younger, I'd take them to task. Now? I don't have the spoons for it. I'll just block and move on.

08.03.2026 06:45 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Gawd, I love this woman. πŸ˜‚

08.03.2026 06:27 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Cat Changing The Clock Changing The Time GIF Alt: Cat Changing The Clock Changing The Time GIF

Don't forget to spring your clocks forward.

(Also, Daylight Saving Time is stupid.)

08.03.2026 06:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Do not watch this movie during an acid trip.

That's all I'm saying.

(College was... interesting.)

07.03.2026 05:41 πŸ‘ 24 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

Yup!

07.03.2026 05:39 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I mean, you don't build a casino in Atlantic City without being in bed with the mob.

06.03.2026 20:55 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Haven't seen the prices today, but it was $3.07/gal a couple of days ago when I gassed up and consistently running about $2.65/gal before that.

06.03.2026 20:34 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Both. It's both. πŸ˜‚

06.03.2026 20:15 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

You should make a strip about the creepy doll. πŸ˜‚

06.03.2026 20:11 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The only thing positive that has come out of Noem's pink slip are the increased doggo and puppy posts on Bluesky.

06.03.2026 14:28 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Has anyone told these engineers to stop basing their designs off toddler art?

06.03.2026 04:55 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

We turned away from the light when we invented a way to go online without the computer screaming in warning.

06.03.2026 04:02 πŸ‘ 1438 πŸ” 331 πŸ’¬ 22 πŸ“Œ 8

I didn't realize she didn't know she'd been fired. That's hilarious.

And for the record, I'm petty AF when it comes to this regime.

06.03.2026 04:49 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yes.

06.03.2026 00:45 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

1. Noem still needs to tried for her crimes. Getting fired shouldn't let her off the hook.

2. Fetterman can go fuck himself.

3. Mullin won't be any better than Noem. In fact, I think it could potentially be worse.

05.03.2026 22:59 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0