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Smol adult | โ™€๏ธ | ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ฎ //animanga//JPN music//culture // Studying Social Psychology @ Helsinki Uni Literally just Eevee

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I just don't trust any social platform anywhere. I don't join some sites because I like them or the creators. I do not like Bluesky people either, like at all. I join because of the people that are there. I have quite nice Twitter feed still, because I just block every single thing I don't like now.

26.12.2025 13:43 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

who I am without judgement. Sadly, it is just a truth that anti-type behavior has infested fandoms everywhere at large. It's not a new phenomena ofc, but def boosted again by COVID.

26.12.2025 13:40 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've kinda made my peace that there just isn't a social platform where you can be completely free of that fear. [I've heard it has been difficult here for people too] I've kinda made the decision to not give a fuck who some lunatics say on socials and focus more on people I know and those who accept

26.12.2025 13:38 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿซ‚ your feelings are valid,
Social media has gone worse after covid it feels like tbh, many normies coming in fandoms and they don't know how to act and casually being rude everywhere. Rising censorship and fascism everywhere and people just chasing drama and engagement..

26.12.2025 13:16 ๐Ÿ‘ 3 ๐Ÿ” 2 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Like when Msn Messenger was ending, Skype was there. When Skype blundered, Discord was there. Same with Myspace to Tumblr, or from Facebook to places like Instagram and Twitter too. It was natural phenomenon of that time. But now, people haphazardly move to half-baked platforms.

26.12.2025 13:23 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

past, the change to different platforms was kinda organic and happened when the new platform was actually ready, not trying to bait people to join like it was some "moral choice", and I also hate how Bluesky has advertised, kinda in that way, it feels so fake from fucking social platform to do.

26.12.2025 13:21 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It almost feels like people are running out from their home because a fire started. No one wants to fight anymore. But then no one wants to move to different platforms any more either. So people are in this kind of forever limbo where they complain, but never do anything. I just feel like in the

26.12.2025 13:20 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

years when Twitter was full of genuine connection, and I literally have met so so many people through it, some that I even consider my friends and IRL mutuals, even now. I've used it since 2010, when I was 16. Half of my internet live is there. So when people are saying like "let's just give up"

26.12.2025 13:18 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You seem like a great person too, so thank you, I appreciate it. Like some people are probably kinda mystified why I feel so strongly about social media platforms, but especially Twitter, crumbling down. Tbh, I haven't been a big social media person like ever, beyond Twitter. And I remember the

26.12.2025 13:17 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

stay in Twitter, there goes my another big reason to use this place at all. So there's just also usage thing. And well, the TOS being what it is, that's just like cherry on top. So in that sense, it made me easy not to use Bluesky actively. But like, I'm always open still, I just kinda like wait.

26.12.2025 13:13 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Well, it's easy for me in this case. Many of my mutuals have made accounts here, but haven't stayed active. So why would I either? I can also reach most of those people privately if I truly want to, so then this place holds no purpose to me.
And as long as JPN spaces and official accounts mostly

26.12.2025 13:12 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Like I said previously, if Twitter is completely gone and Bsky stays as is and it literally doesn't become the next Twitter like has been said for 15 times now, I'll probs just dip from social media [at least public posting] I just can't stand this anymore. Everything feels hollow, fake and quiet.

26.12.2025 13:10 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

At this point, I've kinda lost my faith in social platforms. I haven't found myself feeling good here, or anywhere else, in years. I don't feel actual sense of community anywhere anymore. That ended like around 2020 or so. People are just scattered on different platforms and everything feels bad.

26.12.2025 13:09 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It also suffers from American style puritanism, that is supported by the devs. Which I find honestly repulsive in a way. I've had to withstand this in fandoms for 10 years. Unless JPN people really stay here and devs change their stances, I will not be active here, once again.

26.12.2025 13:05 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yeah probs...it's pretty sad honestly. In general I'm saddened by the current atmosphere of weeb fandoms. There seems to be so many new people into this hobby who say they "like" anime, but then just mock a lot of things in it and do whole morality check stuff. And not just sexual things.

26.12.2025 13:00 ๐Ÿ‘ 3 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

There's not whole "NSFW ban" here, but let's just say the bans are very trigger happy at least. It seems though that Western style art gets more leeway, dunno if mods just prefer it then. Can't say how it works on IRL porn.

26.12.2025 12:50 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've also heard that once artists for reason or another have been banned from the site they can't get their accounts easily back. And this has happened to many anime style NSFW artists. Also Bluesky TOS does consider lolisho as CSEM, sadly.

26.12.2025 12:47 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

There's not as big of pushback as Tumblr, probably because Bluesky is still relatively small. Tumblr on its hayday was literally like main kind of social platform for many [at least Western] fandom spaces and younger social media users. So the purge was ofc much larger as well.

26.12.2025 12:43 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yeah it's kinda already cracking, which is only good....I really hope for the best tbh.

25.12.2025 21:43 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Tbh, I'm still hopeful Twitter will actually revert the edit button, it's made so much damage even Twitter support locked down and even official accounts are kinda panicking so maybe there's hope...sigh I Just Hate Internet in general.
Also I want unneeded usage of AI gone asap from internet.

25.12.2025 21:41 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I just really hope the Idiot Usage AI bubble bursts from the net like NFTs did. We need to push back so it's scaled down everywhere where it isn't actually needed...

25.12.2025 21:37 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This This like oh my god please ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

25.12.2025 21:36 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

For now. Sadly the devs here are also Pro AI. At this point I just fucking hope the We Only Use AI For Shit bubble bursts asap, because it's not just Twitter or social media, I fucking hate using Internet currently because every corner has fucking AI tool ๐Ÿ™ƒ we don't need this, Stop.

25.12.2025 21:31 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We should just make social media platform that blocks all antis and Americans, just in case ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ˜

25.12.2025 21:21 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

NO
Goddamit, I can't blame them, that fuckinh sucks. I would block whole world too if they didn't know how to behave.
And jeah devs being anti-porn is yikes ๐Ÿ˜ฌ Im also waiting my account to get nuked.. but I'm also tired to just wait for perfect site, so this'll make do...

25.12.2025 21:19 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Westerners are left with mostly other Americans/Europeans. And this point I'm so done with US centric fandom shit I rather just leave social media if I can't interact with most other users : )

25.12.2025 21:18 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I hope Twitter isn't done fully. Because I'm worried this site won't cater to Japanese users. They are much more censorship lax than most Americans at this point. And if those spaces have to leave Twitter, I'm worried it will create a situation where JPN/Asian users leave to their own platforms and

25.12.2025 21:16 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Tbh, what worries me the most considering this site is the fact that not just some users but the damn devs are quite anti porn too ๐Ÿ™ƒ like god please I want a social media site not run by Americans at this point...

25.12.2025 21:10 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I kinda had hopes for Pommu, the social media site DLsite created, but then it was geoblocked from others than Japanese users because antis flooded it with harassment : ( like GOD I just hate current internet So So Much...I want 2010s social media feeling back..

25.12.2025 21:08 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0