zandalee

Nobody warns you that when an avoidant person (me) starts actually communicating instead of disappearing/holding it in/ shutting down, you cry all the fucking time. Like, it's so annoying like can you just talk like- damn it's never that serious but my nervous system don't know that.

hey…how yall doin…

i just saw nickel boys. should win best picture

i’ve lived so many lives this year and it just started

this has been the longest month of my life holy shit

the longer i sit with that film the more i like it

thinking about the babygirl father figure montage…

tonight i had a pretty nice date w a dude but as soon as i admitted ive never been a relationship he laughed 😭 and it was involuntary and he apologized after and it was all admittedly very funny but it’s the Worst part of my night every time

wish i could leave my body every first date i have where i have to admit ive never been in a relationship before and the person either looks at me in amazement or pity

a complete unknown doesn’t deserve much at all in my honest opinion, but in a world where challengers exists ?? what are we doing ?

i have much less reach on this app, mainly bc i keep forgetting it exists to use it enough to gain some kind of following, but i’m using that obscurity to say the fact that ed norton is up for supporting actor at all this season is laughable

so often i really wanna tap into my carrie bradshaw bag and blog more explicitly abt my life but i’m not quite ready to risk that

the day after i watched the broken hearts gallery a man left something at my home…fighting the urge to channel lucy gulliver

NYC let’s fucking gooo!!!!

Don’t make me tap the sign. Strikes are supposed to be disruptive

If you see anyone talking about how the Amazon strike could disrupt the flow of packages:

A Lack of Vulnerability and Why Love is Blind Fails at Being Reality TV There are lessons to be learned even from the trashiest reality tv shows.

and a briefer critique of the show and its merits as a piece of reality television here: www.zandaleeindigo.com/post/a-lack-...

who's afraid of vulnerability? jumbled thoughts about online discourse, love is blind, and the erosion of the modern dating scene.

finally, two weeks after a self imposed deadline my writing is up! you can read my substack musings about #loveisblind online discourse, and dating here: open.substack.com/pub/zandalee...

just kidding everyone all i needed was to hook up w a capricorn ! i’m satisfied

A Lack of Vulnerability and Why Love is Blind Fails at Being Reality TV There are lessons to be learned even from the trashiest reality tv shows.

and a briefer critique of the show and its merits as a piece of reality television here: www.zandaleeindigo.com/post/a-lack-...

who's afraid of vulnerability? jumbled thoughts about online discourse, love is blind, and the erosion of the modern dating scene.

finally, two weeks after a self imposed deadline my writing is up! you can read my substack musings about #loveisblind online discourse, and dating here: open.substack.com/pub/zandalee...

many men in my orbit. underwhelmed by them all.

Wham did not have to go so hard on “Last Christmas”

they simply don’t make men like 90s eddie murphy anymore….we’ve lost so many recipes

experiencing jeff buckley’s falsetto for the first time and levitating

behind my deadline because of course i am, i finally finished my substack post at 3.7k words… now onto the companion blog post 🫡

I need a place to talk about my worrying attraction to Dan from VEEP. Like it's disgusting and I know that. However

in my head rnb is quintessential winter romance music

snowing today so naturally i had to listen to d’angelo

over 3,000 words and counting…

feeling the feminine urge to rewatch love jones