Becki Labine 🌐 Indiana & FMTY

I have to admit...it is begrudgingly cute. Adorable little fluffy dudes 🐑

I was just informed of the Kansas City Brew Festival near the time of my planned travel and it sounds so very tempting… would it be worth arriving early for the fun, froth and potential company?

a curly-haired redhead takes a selfie in front of a full-length mirror while wearing a loose white crop top and tight green panties.

I’m eyeing St. Louis and Kansas City for the last week of February...

Cold air, warm evenings and perhaps someone clever enough to keep me company?

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Apparently, the decision was made for me because X suspended my account yesterday...

Ah, that's what I thought happened. 😂 Suddenly all my posts were getting kicked back

I must confess that security envelopes have become my silly little collectable as of late - I'm in love with the geometric patterns, faint textures and subtle artistry of concealment - so you'll definitely earn bonus points if one's included when we meet. 📩

a redhead lying on her back wearing a green lace bodysuit, hair draped over one shoulder and full lips softly parted

There’s a subtle maturation to dalliances in your mid-30s - I've become so comfortable within myself that it gives me an edge on connecting with my partners... and that just makes every encounter so much the sweeter.

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I keep the best parts for the gentlemen who subscribe - travel plans whispered early, reflections shared honestly, the occasional delicious aside. Shouldn't you be one of them?
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And, for the record, the crawdad newsletter photo was in fact a hit 🦞

I can’t quite tell - are we still lingering on X out of habit or have the clever ones quietly moved somewhere better? I'm uncomfortable with many of the changes but still a little hesitant to cut them off completely...

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a pale redhead in a form-fitting black dress sits perched on a table, one shapely leg lifted and hand outstretched to pick up a coffee cup.

Indianapolis does early spring in a way that invites closeness...slush still cooling the streets countered by warm touches over dinner and the sort of night that begs not to end too early.

Trying to decide if sending out a half naked photo with a crawdad in my mouth in this month's newsletter is 🦞too much🦞 or the perfect encapsulation of my personality...

The downside of both day-job working in Chicago and knowing so many of the residents intimately is that when you're on layover in ORD and a face looks familiar it can be a real challenge to search the correct mental Rolodex...

Screenshot of the top of a Bsky feed, with a red circle around the hamburger menu in the top left.

Wondering why no one likes your posts anymore, even among your friends? It's because @jay.bsky.team and team have decided to hide a huge amount of content from all of our feeds by default.

Here's how to turn it off.

First go to the hamburger menu in the upper left corner

Agreed, but I must admit carne asada tacos with shredded cabbage, radishes and ranch is divine

I'm in awe of your flavor combinations...this is deranged in the best possible way and I'm dying to know how the Laphroaig came out.

That is exhausting, I'm so sorry. :/

It is very actively in the works 🩵

Innovation, networking, and maybe a little mischief…#RALLY2025 sounds like my kind of playground. Gentlemen, I hope you’re up for both the talking and the teasing… 💋

How lenient are they for a lingerie? I've heard some accounts can get away with censored nudity and others have to be in street clothes to pass.

St. Louis, I’m eyeing you…but much like a vampire, I’d need a proper invite to come.
Any charming suitors waiting for me in the Gateway City? #DateSTL

I’m thinking of putting more energy into IG but I hear such mixed stories…how has it been for you? (and if you'd share your profile link I'd love to connect!) #oursky

I've found that men are most satisfying when they're like my coffee… rich, dark, and meant to be savoured slowly. Who'd like to prove me right?

Men tell me they’re “not the submissive type” then spend 40 hours a week doing exactly what someone else says. Come over here and let me at least make it interesting...

Thinking of taking myself on a little Southern tour in October. Should I go where the cocktails are strong, where the art is strange… or where you are?

My under-30 suitors keep surprising me...every encounter feels like discovering a new favourite song and playing it on repeat.

Caught a man knuckle-deep in his nose mid-aisle at the pharmacy.
Tilted my head, arched a brow and let silence do the scolding.
He finally remembered to behave in public, but watching him squirm was quite satisfying.

A pale redhead wearing a red v-neck croptop and dark blue panties standing in front of a white wall with a framed texas flag. The photo is cropped to only include her body from just above her upper lip to the upper thigh.

It’s dangerous when I get restless...I start checking flights instead of texts.
Which city should I accidentally-on-purpose end up in soon?

Slid a silk scarf through my fingers at the store and now I can’t stop thinking about how soft it would feel tied around someone else’s wrists...