I really don’t understand where this pay for fetish thing is going. Just seen a sub with a throne account where you can pay for an hour video call with them (and even record it, whooo!)
What am I going to do with a sub on video for an hour? Play Simon says?
Just fuck off 🙄
Yeah and how well is that going for them at the ballot box. Idiot.
This. And faking it won’t work for real and long term. Sooner or later the facade will slip, then what.
The trouble is, I’ve had interest online on things in the past and then put it on with help from others and had not enough people attend to make it worth the time. Happy to do things but needs to be worth the effort.
I try…
Funnily enough was thinking about a fetish bootcamp/academy over the weekend. No idea if it would actually be useful or if people would attend, but I played with a newbie recently and it got me thinking about how to cram information in their head in a fun and interactive way. Anyhow 🤷♂️
Also affecting your blood ph and blood chemistry. That’s also not discussed enough and not treatable in a home/dungeon setting either…
Be yourself, it also gives others permission to be themselves as well.
Sorry to start the week with bad news. Look after yourself and each other ♥️
Also I keep saying it because not enough people know, the risks from breath control are not “just” from lack of oxygen. It carries a very high risk of triggering a type of heart attack that is very difficult to treat.
Please read up and be aware.
Have to defend them?!
My dinner this weekend:
Well now I have ideas…
I’m sorry for the sub, they deserved better from that Dom. RIP buddy.
And don’t do full immobilisation bondage until you have met and played a few times and you have a good measure of someone. Regardless if they are Pro Dom or not. Apply the same high standards to all you play with.
Unfortunately hearing reports of a sub that had a heart attack from breath control while their pro Dom left them unattended to get another piece of equipment.
Unfortunately Pro Dom does not mean safe or sensible, it’s no guarantee at all. Have conversations, discuss what safeguards…
Yes it is Antwerp, it’s been on this weekend. I expect you may see a few kinksters about heading home today
Oh get out of it lad, used to commute to London daily from the south coast and be up at 5am. Don’t be so soft lad.
Look, we’ve told you before that’s snot funny doing that to lads….
Seen any of the Darklands crowd looking rough? 👀😂
Poster credit SpacePupSilver
Organising a thing:
The Neutron Pup walk.
Sat 20th June
Meet at Pomona tram station 1pm to depart 2pm. Walk along the canal to Manchester finishing at Sackville Gardens for a picnic.
Raising money for the LGBT foundation: gofund.me/0ec15f1d1
Make a donation, get sponsored or just come along.
Oh look, you’re both smiling and look so happy. So cute! :3
Ugh so much "not all men" stuff going on today. It's when men don't call out friends for comments, or turn a blind eye to what mates are doing. It's in jokes and actions. It's in deflection by saying "not all men". If things are to change everyone needs to accept what's wrong #internationalwomensday
Did you have to use your craneum?
Couldn’t process someone’s profile description that they were into suede and instead thought they had a 🪦 kink 😬
I don’t get why people introduce people to kinks in ways that is obviously going to put them off. It’s stupid and self defeating.
When I do electro with a newbie I always start with it on zero and give them the box first so they can get used to the sensations, get comfortable, adjust electrodes etc. then if they are good then I take over and drive.
Today's question.
What's a kink that you really wanted to try, but it wasn't what you were expecting when you actually tried it?
For me it was cock pumping. It looked so hot, but when I tried it found it very uncomfortable
Looking amazing there, especially in the rubber gear. Maybe see you at full cover next time (when I’m not full of cold!)
Hotels.com:
You need a holiday.
IADD: don’t I fucking know it…
