Queen of Wands

Panel 1 Wrestling with my Body by Inam, published on ohjoysextoy.com February 16, 2026 Inam draws in an angular, scribbly cartoony style with off-set blocky coloring. She draws herself as a bug-eyed girl in a bat-eared hood. The color palette of the comic are muted mustard yellows, dull oranges, and dusty teals. Narration: Getting a hypermobility diagnosis really put a lot of things in context for me. In a physical therapist office's office, the practitioner lifts Inam's arms, which twist into curly-Qs, over her head. "Whoa." He states at the improbably bent arms while Inam looks forward blankly, not reacting. Narration: The times my body felt strangely weak... On a crowded bus, Inam struggles to hold on to a vertical support pole, sweating and trembling with the effort. Narration: Unpredictable... Lunging at a ball with her racket on the tennis court, Inam's arm bends at multiple impossible sharp angles. She looks at this oddity with confusion but no pain.

In another setting, a person points downwards and asks Inam, "What are your feet doing?" The panel pans down to reveal that Inam's feet are pointing in unnatural directions and their left leg is twisted into a spiral. "I don't know" Inam cries. Narration: And confusing. Several objects are scattered across the page: a tube of cream, a packet of pills, a hot water bottle, a roll of sports tape, a set of mini dumbbells, and a teddy bear with a bandage on its ear and holding a big heart that also has a criss-cross of bandaids on it. Narration: It's been a complicated road figuring out how best to manage it.

Narration: And finding out that my accomomdations are not very sexy to able-bodied people. Inam enters a bedroom wearing cute, fancy underwear, stockings, a leather collar with an O-ring on it, and sexy librarian glasses. In her hands she carries a first aid kit, a rolled up towel, and her hot water bottle. She looks in surprise at the woman sitting on her bed. "Oh," The woman says with a little wave. "we don't have to do anything tonight..." All her sexy accoutrements removed, Inam thinks to herself with a tear, "But... I wanted to...!" A banner unfurls across the bottom of the page

Inam discovers Play Flighting in their explorations with their disability and desires.
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cover of The Guardian, a demon romance, by Ollie Fox.

Paperbacks of The Guardian.

Back blurb: Most people get a guardian angel, but Lily Collins learns that she was assigned a guardian demon. Maldeus is ancient, clever, and powerful; he also knows and understands Lily better than anyone ever has. But he has just been elected the new Prince of Hell, which means he has to leave his charge without a guardian…  Unless Lily decides to join him in Hell. Should she become his semi-immortal consort and abandon everything she knows? Or should she keep the life she loves but never see him again, in life or death? Lily has to choose, and fast. Because demons are not the worst beings around, and other things are beginning to notice that the throne of Hell stands empty—and that its new Prince has one very mortal weakness.  A spicy M/F paranormal romance with humor, comfort, swords, and a demon with such intense devotion that it could only be forged in the depths of Hell. 

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Photo of Siobhan: a white woman with curly auburn hair pulled back, wearing wireframe glasses, green petal-shaped earrings, and a dark burgundy cardigan over a kelly green blouse, in front of a floral background in shades of pink, green, white, and red. She is smiling and looking off-camera to the viewer's right, eyebrows raised.

Siobhan (she/her, DenyConformity.com) is the other half, and the designated high shelf reacher. Writer, artist, web mistress, and mother (not in that order), she has way too many hobbies. Laughing is her second favorite thing to make people do.

Photo of Jay: a white person of size, seated on a floor cushion against a backdrop of plants and a white wall. They have black floral tattoos on their arms, green acrylic glasses, short dark hair, and are wearing black faux-leather trousers and a short sleeved button up shirt patterned with cream, black, and light purple squiggles, and light teal blobs. They have one knee bent with their elbow resting on it and their head/neck propped against the hand of that arm while they offer a soft smile for the viewer.

Jay (they/she, @jayarden.com) is one half of QoW and your designated social media corvid. They have three extremely affectionate cats, an unashamed over-the-top obsession with the band Ghost, and occasionally go into the woods in search of wild edibles.

Queen of Wands is being built by a pair of nerdy queers with a vision: to create a space for all genders and all bodies to explore sexuality, pleasure, intimacy, and to build the community we deeply crave.

Good morning Pittsburgh! Your prospective smut and toy peddlers are braving the chill this morning as we continue taking steps towards finding premises and opening our doors to you!

In the meantime, it seems like a round of introductions is in order.

Goals, tbh. 💜

Hello to a handful of new followers! Yinz have already sent in lots of great info and we thank you; please keep it coming, and thanks again.

Planning on sharing more about us very soon so you can get to know the people behind this project. So excited to get to know you better, too! 💜💛

Hey Pittsburgh! Help us gather information to open a queer- and trans-forward adult shop and community space, hopefully coming to you in 2026: queenofwands.store

If you're feeling extra enthusiastic, please share the link/survey with your friends - we're looking forward to hearing from you! 💛💜

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