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Musician, Psychedelic Facilitator, Aspen Choral Society, Two Rivers Unitarian Universalists, Internal Family Systems (IFS), seeking Cosmic Wholeness, living in Basalt, CO

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Logical Fallacies: The Hidden Shortcuts That Fuel Polarization Logical fallacies are the mind’s favorite shortcuts—especially when we’re tired, threatened, or fiercely attached to being right. This quick detour names a few of the big ones (confirmation bias, straw man, red herrings, conspiracy thinking) and offers a simple invitation: spot the pattern, take a breath, and stay willing to think again.

Logical Fallacies: The Hidden Shortcuts That Fuel Polarization

Logical fallacies are the mind’s favorite shortcuts—especially when we’re tired, threatened, or fiercely attached to being right. This quick detour names a few of the big ones (confirmation bias, straw man, red herrings, conspiracy…

17.02.2026 15:44 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Stop Calling It Resistance When we call our work “resistance,” we train ourselves to brace. Bracing narrows our thinking into simple stories—clean causes, clear culprits, us/them—and in that narrowed world scapegoating starts to feel like relief, because blaming someone gives our nervous system a quick hit of certainty and control. But there’s another way to stay strong: mindful engagement, grounded action, steady-hearted advocacy. What if we could take firm action without feeding the war—and choose a posture that keeps us human?

Stop Calling It Resistance

When we call our work “resistance,” we train ourselves to brace. Bracing narrows our thinking into simple stories—clean causes, clear culprits, us/them—and in that narrowed world scapegoating starts to feel like relief, because blaming someone gives our nervous system a…

17.02.2026 05:07 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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We Are Eating Each Other Alive We are living inside a story that requires “good guys” and “bad guys”—and it’s costing us our humanity. This essay is my attempt to interrupt the scapegoat machine in our culture (and in myself), and to practice a different way of being: one rooted in dignity, True Self leadership, and the courage to choose again.

We Are Eating Each Other Alive

We are living inside a story that requires “good guys” and “bad guys”—and it’s costing us our humanity. This essay is my attempt to interrupt the scapegoat machine in our culture (and in myself), and to practice a different way of being: one rooted in dignity, True…

12.02.2026 18:52 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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A Life That Can Breathe We are choosing a life that can breathe. That sentence has been quietly forming in us for a long time. From the outside, our lives in the Roaring Fork Valley...
22.01.2026 18:57 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Becoming Self Led There is a wonderful mental health modality called IFS (Internal Family Systems) that was discovered and developed by Richard Schwartz. I am not a therapist, so let’s start with that...
09.01.2026 06:35 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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“Philosophy as Pilgrimage: Greek Wisdom Traditions” by Charis Caldwell, M.Phil. M.Div. What does it mean to live a good life? That timeless question guided the great minds of ancient Greece—Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, the Stoics, and the Cynics. In our October gathering, Charis Caldw…
27.10.2025 17:57 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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Trump issues a Columbus Day proclamation to 'reclaim' the explorer's legacy President Trump said "left-wing radicals" have tried to tarnish Columbus' legacy, and the proclamation is a way to preserve it. Some experts say it's a way to erase the heritage of Native Americans.

President Trump said "left-wing radicals" have tried to tarnish Columbus' legacy, and the proclamation is a way to preserve it. Some experts say it's a way to erase the heritage of Native Americans. n.pr/4h2pwRc

11.10.2025 10:39 👍 349 🔁 94 💬 100 📌 46
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“Days Of Awe” by Niki Delson Jews across the world consider “The Days of Awe” — the ten days between Rosh Hashanah (the Jewish New Year) and Yom Kippur (the Day of Atonement) — a sacred opportunity for spiritual transformation…
23.09.2025 15:57 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“The Power of Covenant” by Rev. Zenshin Florence Caplow The heart of all Unitarian Universalist congregations is our covenant with each other. Unlike many other American denominations that share a creed, often recited each Sunday, Unitarian Universalist…
08.09.2025 21:53 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“The People Who Brought You Weekends” by Steve Brooks This Labor Day Weekend, join TRUU for a rousing celebration of the songs and stories that shaped the American labor movement. UU folk singer and storyteller, Steve Brooks, returns with a spirited, …
01.09.2025 04:37 👍 2 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“Just us, or Justice?” by Kate Friesen What is justice, really—and who gets to decide? Join TRUU for a thoughtful and engaging Social Justice Sunday as we explore deep questions about morality, power, and responsibility. Can we honor di…
25.08.2025 15:43 👍 2 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“The Creation Spirituality of John Denver” by The Rev. Dr. Todd F. Eklof Celebrate the launch of our children’s programs with a joy-filled, music-rich service that brings together families, friends, and fresh beginnings! Featuring the beloved songs of John Denver, perfo…
18.08.2025 15:06 👍 2 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“Wisdom from the Primal Traditions” by Charis Caldwell, M.Phil. M.Div. Before doctrine and dogma, there were drumbeats, dreams, and deep connection to the land. In this opening message, guest speaker Charis Caldwell invites us to explore the world’s earliest spiritual…
10.08.2025 20:51 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“Letting Go” by Aaron Brown In a world that prizes striving, managing, and achieving, what does it mean to simply let go? As art, business, politics, and academia urge us to take on more, spirituality calls us in the opposite…
28.07.2025 04:19 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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A Sprint Through Our Cultural Wisdom Traditions, by Charis Caldwell Greetings… Beginning in August, on one Sunday each month, I will be welcoming you into a conversation I have been hosting within myself for most of my life. Part philosophical exercise, part spirit…
24.07.2025 16:00 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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Trump and the Catholic Church Fight a Law Requiring Clergy to Report Child Abuse — Rolling Stone Washington moved to close a dangerous loophole. Now there’s a constitutional showdown pitting religious freedoms against the duty to protect children

Hmmm … mandatory reporting of child abuse is anti catholic? Good to know. apple.news/AXJfrvrqPTrG...

23.07.2025 01:35 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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“What Remains” by Aaron Brown What does it mean to leave a legacy? Is it what we build, what we give, how we’re remembered, or something more mysterious? This Sunday, we will explore the enduring human longing to live a life th…
21.07.2025 21:35 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“Change Is Inevitable; Choosing Love Anyway” by Rev. Zenshin Florence Caplow As Mary Oliver wrote, “To live in this world you must be able to do three things: to love what is mortal; to hold it against your bones knowing your own life depends on it; and, when the time comes…
07.07.2025 15:23 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“Harriet and Moses: From Hush Harbors to the Far Horizon” by Aaron Brown Freedom is not only a political condition—it is a spiritual practice. This Sunday, we draw wisdom from two great guides to liberation: Harriet Tubman and Moses. Each walked a path shaped by instinc…
09.06.2025 14:06 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“Nobody’s Free Until Everybody Is Free: Freedom and the Beloved Community” by Rev. Zenshin Florence Caplow These words by the great civil rights activist Fanny Lou Hamer point us toward the reality of our deep interconnection. Rev. Florence Caplow will reflect on the liberatory teachings of Beloved Comm…
03.06.2025 14:13 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“Stagger Onward Rejoicing”: The Power of Poetry to Keep Us Going by Rev. Zenshin Florence Caplow Stagger onward rejoicing. The poet W,H. Auden penned these words in 1941, when he and other poets were “deeply concerned with the worldwide economic depression, the Spanish Civil War, the ris…
23.05.2025 19:52 👍 2 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“Mothers, Messes, and Grace” by Aaron Brown Love, at its best, is a powerful act of imagination. This Mother’s Day, we explore how the kind of love many parents feel for their growing children—tender, hopeful, forgiving—can be transfor…
12.05.2025 19:09 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“The Worlds We Imagine” by Aaron Brown Our world is built not only from bricks and steel, but from stories—from generations of dreams imagined into being. From money to gender, nations to religions, much of what we call reality is simpl…
05.05.2025 17:29 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“Love Letters to the Earth” by Rev. Zenshin Florence Caplow For this spring Sunday before Earth Day, we will hear excerpts of “Love Letters to the Earth” by Vietnamese Zen monk Thich Nhat Hanh, and consider the power of our own love for the natu…
21.04.2025 22:01 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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3 Questions to ask yourself when things get overwhelming During last Sunday’s service with the TRUU community, Aaron Brown shared the following process for greeting yourself with gentle curiosity when things start to feel overwhelming. Begin by recognizi…
18.04.2025 13:53 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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“The Rise of Joy” by Aaron Brown Our attention is our dearest wealth and our most potent power. How we invest it determines how we experience the world. If we allow our attention to be consumed by agents of fear, our fear will gro…
09.04.2025 04:50 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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What a fun and meaningful morning at TRUU, with Aaron delivering a wisdom story and reflection inspired by none other than Ted Lasso. If Ted is on his way to becoming a UU saint, when do we celebrate his holiday—and how? Biscuits with the Boss, anyone?

#BeCuriousNotJudgmental

07.04.2025 02:41 👍 2 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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Let yourself be held by the season. Go outside. Breathe. Be reminded: we are part of something larger.

Quote from "The Beautiful World Beside the Broken One" by Margaret Renkl—last Sunday’s reading at TRUU.

#TRUU #SpringEmergence #GroundedHope

08.04.2025 03:04 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
In the upper left corner of the graphic is circular photo of UU Rev. Phoenix Bell-Shelton Biggs who has short curly hair and is wearing black glasses and a black clergy robe with a white collar. Behind them is a blurred rainbow pride flag. The circle is framed with a gradient border that shifts from pink to blue, with white sparkles and the hashtag "#TransJoyIsSacred" curving along the bottom.

To the right, against a purple gradient background with soft stars and sparkles, is a rainbow-colored UU flaming chalice logo and the text "http://UUA.ORG ."

Below the portrait is a quote in white text:
“To affirm trans lives is to affirm the fundamental truth that all people deserve to live fully, freely, and without fear... It means celebrating trans joy, trans beauty, trans leadership, and trans love.”
– UU Rev. Phoenix Bell-Shelton Biggs

Text along the right edge reads: "Photo credit: Rev. Phoenix Bell-Shelton Biggs."

In the upper left corner of the graphic is circular photo of UU Rev. Phoenix Bell-Shelton Biggs who has short curly hair and is wearing black glasses and a black clergy robe with a white collar. Behind them is a blurred rainbow pride flag. The circle is framed with a gradient border that shifts from pink to blue, with white sparkles and the hashtag "#TransJoyIsSacred" curving along the bottom. To the right, against a purple gradient background with soft stars and sparkles, is a rainbow-colored UU flaming chalice logo and the text "http://UUA.ORG ." Below the portrait is a quote in white text: “To affirm trans lives is to affirm the fundamental truth that all people deserve to live fully, freely, and without fear... It means celebrating trans joy, trans beauty, trans leadership, and trans love.” – UU Rev. Phoenix Bell-Shelton Biggs Text along the right edge reads: "Photo credit: Rev. Phoenix Bell-Shelton Biggs."

A graphic with a vibrant gradient background blending pink, purple, blue, and orange hues. Large bold text in dark purple reads: “TRANS JOY SACRED,” with the word “is” in a smaller, light blue script font.

Below the main text is the hashtag “#TransJoyIsSacred” in dark purple, followed by a rectangular outline containing the website address “http://uua.org .”

In the lower left corner is the Unitarian Universalist flaming chalice symbol rendered in rainbow colors. Along the bottom of the image runs a flowing ribbon design featuring the colors of the transgender flag: light blue, pink, white.

A graphic with a vibrant gradient background blending pink, purple, blue, and orange hues. Large bold text in dark purple reads: “TRANS JOY SACRED,” with the word “is” in a smaller, light blue script font. Below the main text is the hashtag “#TransJoyIsSacred” in dark purple, followed by a rectangular outline containing the website address “http://uua.org .” In the lower left corner is the Unitarian Universalist flaming chalice symbol rendered in rainbow colors. Along the bottom of the image runs a flowing ribbon design featuring the colors of the transgender flag: light blue, pink, white.

💖 #TransJoyIsSacred 💖
On Trans Day of Visibility, we honor the fullness of trans lives. As Rev. Phoenix Bell-Shelton Biggs reminds us:
“To affirm trans lives… means celebrating trans joy, trans beauty, trans leadership, and trans love.”
#TDOV #TransLove #UU #UnitarianUniversalist #BelovedCommunity

31.03.2025 20:56 👍 52 🔁 15 💬 1 📌 0
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Current Social Justice Issues, March 30th, 2025 Our Unitarian Universalist principles—of justice, equity, and compassion—are under threat. How do we respond with courage and clarity, without losing our grounding in love and dignity? This Sunday,…
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