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泛依婷 Stefany Valentine

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I write books⤵️ FIRST LOVE LANGUAGE (Out now!) WHEN WE BECOME OURS (Out now!) LOVE MAKES MOCHI (Feb, 2026)

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14.09.2025 13:03 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Do you live some where with lots of earthquakes? What do you do during one? I never grew up on earthquake drills lol

14.09.2025 12:21 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Omg that's wild!! Im not used to the number of earthquakes here in Taiwan but I am used to the number of times I've laid down and felt like I was on a boat hahaha so if the room is moving, it's probably my ear lol

14.09.2025 11:46 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Having vertigo in Taiwan means wondering if im experiencing an earthquake or if my inner ear is just being a little shit again 🤷‍♀️

14.09.2025 11:38 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 3 📌 0

I wasn't much of a tea person before I moved to Taiwan. Now I'm obsessed!! Green tea and oolong are my favorite and that caffeine rush?!?!? Yowza!!

03.09.2025 05:02 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Its my 3rd week in Taiwan. I just woke up from a dream where my long-distance husband got a boyfriend and honestly, I wasn't mad. I was like "im happy you're exploring this side of yourself" lol

30.08.2025 00:01 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

As an adoptee in reunion, I find myself navigating another dynamic--being the caretaker of an aging mother. I feel like the timing of this reunion has forced me to jump into the deep end without wading in. Now I'm caring for the mother who never got a chance to care for me.

25.08.2025 12:36 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Yeah I get like this when I'm reading. But the inability to read tends to happen after I've spent a few chapters on a book. Not before I even start reading. That's why this has been freaking me out😬

24.08.2025 13:44 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Thank you! I appreciate it💖💖

24.08.2025 11:00 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Like am I getting sick? Am I showing early signs of dementia? I'm familiar with the way my brain works but it's gotten worse lately. What the heck is up with that? I'd it a dyslexia thing or a fatigue thing?

24.08.2025 10:49 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Maybe it has nothing to do with the fact that I'm learning another language and more with the fact that my brain is more exhausted because I'm learning in general. But it's been an observation and it's starting to freak me out.

24.08.2025 10:47 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Im dyslexic. Now that I'm in Taiwan learning Mandarin, my brain does that dyslexia buffer thing more often. Like I know I'm looking at words, but I can't read them. So I have to start my brain engine like 3 times before I can start comprehending what I'm seeing.

24.08.2025 10:46 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

Right!! I've been sensing a burst in the hype bubble too! That's a good way of putting it!

23.08.2025 06:41 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

The cutest thing just happened. I taught my bio mom that in America, we say "thick" to mean that someone is fat in a complementary way. A couple days later, she still remembers this and says "my legs are thin but yours are...thick". Its just so freaking amazing to have a biological mom💖💖🥰

23.08.2025 06:41 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Hot take but what if AI actually brings back critical thinking? We see a fake video online, feel ashamed that we fell for it, then learn to adapt. Learn to question the content we consume. Learn to navigate nuance. Wouldn't that be an unexpected twist?!

17.08.2025 22:36 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

It's daytime in the US and nighttime in Taiwan. Getting used to the time zone thing is gunna suuuuuck lol

13.08.2025 15:26 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I feel so defeated as an adoptee every time I see another viral "we adopted an (insert non white race here) baby" video. Yet when ADOPTEES (not adoptERS) speak up about our real experiences, we get told to shut up, we get called ungrateful, and our stories sure as shit don't go viral.

05.08.2025 15:06 👍 5 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0

I think it's cuz adoptees are more triggered by any sort of loss. Like, yes. I found my mom, but to gain everything back, I have to lose all that I had. I can't just be happy. I'm always stuck in this In-between. That's what it means to be an adoptee.

01.08.2025 20:08 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Yes, getting answers about who I am and where I come from is all I've ever wanted. But I'm also grieving the loss of my home, my spouse, my pups, and my family and friends in the US.

01.08.2025 20:06 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Moving to Taiwan as an adoptee in reunion comes with so many mixed emotions. Like yes, im excited, but i haven't been this exhausted, numb, sad, and unmotivated in a long time.

01.08.2025 20:05 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Im a bit of a compression sock ho.
Long car rides?
Compression socks✅️
Flights?
Compression socks✅️
Walking my pup?
Compression socks✅️
Do I have a medical condition that requires me to wear compression socks? Nope. But imma do it anyway lol

31.07.2025 23:04 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Despite genetically not being a likely candidate for a learning disability, I have dyslexia (and dysgraphia). But it wasn't until I realized that adoptees are 3x more likely to develop a learning disability that I really started to unpackage how deeply adoption trauma has impacted me

25.07.2025 15:43 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Exciting translation news for FIRST LOVE LANGUAGE?!?!?!

24.07.2025 16:44 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

So im working on book 3 and my spouse just made me realize that the moral of the story im trying to tell is that we need to love our neighbors. Guys. I'm writing the Bible.

22.07.2025 20:44 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
How to SURVIVE your first BOOK TOUR!
How to SURVIVE your first BOOK TOUR! YouTube video by Stefany Valentine

youtu.be/K9XNaQxBVaY?...

I'm so excited that I made this YouTube video, but for some reason the video quality sucks?! Oh well, it's still packed with lots of info on how to survive a book tour and working on the video quality gives me something to focus on for my next video!

17.07.2025 21:59 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
1 ROAD TRIP • 3 STOPS • NOT ENOUGH TIME
1 ROAD TRIP • 3 STOPS • NOT ENOUGH TIME YouTube video by Stefany Valentine

youtu.be/6K_kRl4mKMM?...

Im moving to Taiwan next month and I'm documenting everything from my author life to my reunification with my mom! This is the first of many blogs I hope to make! Lmk what you think!

10.07.2025 19:03 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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COVER REVEAL!! Add to GoodReads share.google/cEDZUKmik6VC...

27.06.2025 14:39 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I love Texas land but I hate Texas crimes. Like fuck the ICE raids, racism, and limited access to education. But the June rainstorms and the wildlife is something I wish everyone could experience💖

24.06.2025 14:15 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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I'm in Publisher's Weekly! www.publishersweekly.com/pw/by-topic/...

23.06.2025 14:36 👍 7 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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Proud dog mama lol

15.06.2025 16:50 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0